How would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to break up with you because you were too big for her after you tell her that you love her and will never leaver her?
See i feel horrible, because I know my boyfriend loves me, but he's way to big for me when it comes to sex. If a girl (you loved) told you this, would you be disappointed? Would you care? Would you be happy and feel manly? Or would it break your heart because the girl you supposedly love wants to break up with you?
I just don't know what to do, I'm scared to let him near me, he's like close to a foot. I'm kind of lost. We don't really have actual intercourse because he knows it hurts for him to put it in me, but i don't think he knows his size bothers me that much. Suggestions? Help? Anything?
2007-09-27 20:22:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I guess I love him, but I think he assumes I'll eventually let him have actual sex with me, and I don't see that happening. At least not soon.
2007-09-27 20:34:21 · update #1
I'm 18 and he's 22 years old.
2007-09-27 20:34:56 · update #2
actually he's the one kind of hung up on having intercourse with me, everytime he's horny he tries to get me really excited and then asks me if i'm ready for it. When i say he kind of gets disappointed and we just continue oral. He says it doesn't bother him that i'm not ready, but i think differently. He says no other girl has ever complained about his size before, but i'm like the youngest girl he's ever been with. I'm just afraid he'll get fed up and leave me first, but i don't know why he would do that if he says he loves me. I'm sure how i feel about him...
2007-09-27 21:50:10 · update #3
Well I have the opposite problem.
You need to talk to him and explain that it really hurts you. Tell him you know it's not his fault and that you don't want that to come between you. You need to find ways to work around that problem, such as lube, positions, etc.
It is really not necessary to leave him because of his penis size, and if that is all that bothers you then you should be able to work around it if you have a stable relationship. If that is going to cause a breakup, you need to be thinking what the hell you were doing in his pants in the first place!!!
Good luck, it helps to be honest. I was and now my husband and I have a good sexual relationship which include him, me and a vibrator!
2007-09-27 21:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan-Mikyle's Mommy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probobaly hurt a little at first, but once it gets going you'll enjoy it. It will hurt even less if you are really "in the mood". Just ask him to take it slow and be gentle until you get used to it. If he pounds you too hard, you may experience some vaginal tearing. A little foreplay and some lube should do the trick also. After about a couple of weeks, you'll get used to it, then you'll be happy that you are getting the good d**k.
2007-09-27 21:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of happened to me in a way (cept, im not 12" thank god) and i would be pretty upset knowing it was somthing that I couldnt change. If you MUST break up with him, don't tell him thats the reason, make somthing up...
2007-09-28 14:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there! you know you should just take your time, if you really love him and he loves you, sex is not that important, LOVE is more important than sex! Sure sex is fun and satisfing, but remember love is stronger and keeps people together! If you both know what love is that should be enough!
2007-09-28 04:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by mickey_112404 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Much, much more foreplay. You don't give your ages, but if he is young he may be in too much of a hurry for you. Your body will accommodate a baby, which is much bigger than your BF's penis. So you need more time, more relaxation and lubrication.
2007-09-27 20:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Howard H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes in love with you but ya aint with em. i understand hes got a bigfoot penis but thats why they make lube an time
2007-09-27 20:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by tru212reno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can get him a lead role in a Porno movie?
Let's give him a stage name: Long Dong Silver?
2007-09-27 21:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny D' Venison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be disappointed
2007-09-28 10:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dosnt love u..................just wanna have sex with u.......
2007-09-28 00:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋