Did it make you more cautious, or did you ascribe it to a fluke and not let it affect your future trust?
2007-09-27 18:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes, people have big mouths. Be guarded in whom you share secrets or desires with. Because when people get mad, they spew....
2007-09-27 19:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by beanhead1972((14HIM)) 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have, and I am more cautious now, for the sake of my girlfriend and I.
I trusted a friend of mine. Thought I could trust her. But once I started to tell her of my girl, and told her her age...she called her a pedophile (my girl's five years older than I am). And laughed at me. And she said it SO EFFING LOUD. The few people around me started to question me. I had to make up crap to remove any suspicions. And then she would say my girl's name out loud when I had told her to keep her a secret. I had to end up telling her that I broke up with her, and told her to never mention her name again, in hopes she would forget.
I don't trust her at all anymore. Nor is she a friend of mine anymore.
I know who and who I should not trust now.
2007-09-28 04:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ultraviolet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have regretted confiding in other people, but it absolutely made me cautious *and* more intent upon keeping my own mouth shut. For some reason, many people seem to lack the self-control required to keep information confidential. My dad always taught us, "If you cannot keep your own confidences, no one else will, either." I have learned to test people's ability to keep secrets with small, insignificant issues. When I moved to a new town, my mentor told me, "If you want to stand head and shoulders above the crowd here, keep confidential information private. You will have no competition!"
2007-09-28 02:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by reap100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I told a large amount of my personal secrets to a friends and when we had a falling out he told everyone. Including the fact i was a lesbian. And then he tries to tell me it was a mistake. All the grovelling in the world would not fix that mistake. I dont confide in anyone anymore. Only strangers who cant tell anyone who cares.
2007-09-28 03:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Steffie_crumpet89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda affected my trust with people with my sexuality... see im not out and the one girl who i was kinda talking to told a few peopl..and she knew i was not out and that was something i didnt want people knowing. but she was the biggest mistake anyway. But to answer your question dont regret just learn from what you have done...because everything happens for a reason.
2007-09-28 02:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess that there is one girl who talks a bit, but honestly i dont care if most my friends, especially my fiance. knows that im a bit bi.
i remember that she introduced me once to a stranger by saying "Hi this is Paul he likes boys and girls"
Couldnt she think of my my hobbies (then again i guess she did) lol
2007-09-28 02:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will I ever regret answering Your question in an open forum? The answer is no, I regret nothing, not now, not then, not ever.
2007-09-28 02:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. and like the 1st answer said, people have big mouths
2007-09-28 03:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I have regretted it, but it teaches caution.
2007-09-28 02:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋