2007-09-27 18:26:57 · 11 answers · asked by theone111 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Recently, I seem to keep making the wrong choices all the time. The more important they are then the worse that I foul them up.
2007-09-27 19:09:26 · update #1
It's so important to establish boundries for yourself, decide in advance what you will do and not do, where you will go and not go, who you will spend time with and who you will not ...and so on and so on. Otherwise, you get caught in situations where you are sometimes pressured to answer...or decide... right in the moment....that's usually not when we make our brightest decisions.
You never know what you're going to be faced with, it's not logical or possible to have a ready-made answer for any and all circumstances you could possibly be confronted with... but those bounderies that you establish, well, you will establish them based on your values, based on your goals, and of course, based on your "been there done that...what the heck was I thinking" incidents.
So, your morals, whatever they may be... keep them in the forefront of your mind, size up the circumstance against the standards you have established for your life..... at least you won't be shooting in the dark when you make those decisions....
it takes a while for those morals and the bounderies you formed from them to become such a part of you that you can easily determine what you "really want to do" v. "what you've always done"... it's easy to forget them in the moment, but stay strong and committed. If you want this change, then give it your all and make it happen.
Only you can do that, and don't ever think that you can't...you deserve it.
I like to remind myself of where I'm heading....things Ive worked so hard on in order to get myself straight and actually head in that direction.... the direction of my goals I mean.... and then remember where I was just a while back, and trust me.... it wasn't a happy place, and with just ONE wrong choice, well, I'm risking an imediate UTurn which would be what I believe my LAST chance... so I'm real serious about it.... but I also know that it is possible.
getting out of the cycle... it's so nice, you actually end up somewhere you've never been... and once you're there for a little while, you hang in there longer, then a lil longer... then you find alot of inner strength that you never knew you had, and its a happy place that you don't really wanna give up for another ride on the rollercoaster.
okay, hope i haven't confused ya, got a little carried away.
I'm passionate about this if nothing else..... that history does NOT have to repeat itself... and that nothing can stand in your way unless you allow it to.
God Bless.
2007-09-28 00:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in this situation, and despite my beliefs, I will not try and change your mind on getting an abortion. This is something that you, your partner, and your family have to decide. If you are questioning the decision to get an abortion, there is a reason. I always try my best to listen to my gut. Life plans change every day, and even though it would be hard, you would learn to work around a baby and continue on the path that you started. I'm sure you will make the right decision that works best for your life. Please remember that every child is a gift, and none of them chose to be made, and they don't have a choice of whether they are aborted or not. There are millions of people out there that would be more than happy, willing, and would probably die for the chance to raise a child whether it's theirs or not. There is always the option of adoption if you think you can't handle it. Good luck, and let your gut and your heart lead you in the right direction.
2016-05-20 04:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the way of life. Only once you commit a mistake or wrong decision only then can you know and learn from your mistakes. There is no one who can make all correct decisions. Its always that the time is right or wrong. Dont worry just think before you take any decisions and then leave it to God.
2007-09-27 18:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by shail422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously need to think about what you're doing and why. Analuze the best choice for the situation you are in before making a decision
2007-09-27 18:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a well thought out and deliberate decisions and also check with some trusted people before hand.It happens that way some times but becomes alright after a while.
2007-09-27 20:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of decisions are you talking about? If you are talking about having poor judgement, then stop making those choices when you know you are not capable of doing so responsibly. Let yourself grow and become more mature and sure of yourself before doing so.
You have to stop and break the cycle. Spend the time to get to know you, love yourself, and make choices that improve your life, not complicate it more.
2007-09-27 18:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are too impulsive.
You should not make quick judgments or decisions.
Always count to ten, or sleep on it, or get a couple of opinions. Soon, you will be making fewer mistakes.
2007-09-27 18:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man learn from mistakes, so if u r learing from u'r mistakes then it will improve u'r decision making.
2007-09-27 18:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by NEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me to...rush to judgement with out thinking things through...impulsive
2007-09-27 18:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you learn anything from it? If not your an idiot, if so you are wiser. Everybody does that from time to time.
2007-09-27 18:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋