Looking for others who are polygamist or are interested to discuss pros and cons about this lifestyle.
I have been married to my husband for two years now, been together four. Never did either of us think he would ever fall inlove with another woman. Yet three months ago, it happend. I was at first very upset and hurt, and I guess I still am. The fact he didnt tell me before he had decided to do something was the worst part of it all. I have since accepted what has been happening. and cant really bring myself to leave him. I see he does love this woman, but also loves me at the same time.
We have been discussing the possibility of the three of us moving in together, and bringing our families under one roof, alot because we see no point in having to spend the money to go the 60 miles back and forth to see eachother.
I would like to find others who are also interested or in this type of relationship to give me some feedback on how life is, and if its worth it. Thank you.
2007-09-27 17:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Is this really the right forum for that question???
Hummmm.......Though I doubt you're interested in my opinion...if he loved your as much as he should, he would love you and you alone. Don't sacrifice yourself for his threesome fantasies, or whatever it is.
2007-09-27 18:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by emily_brown18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think you should have a look at the situation and be true to you, if you can handle being 1 of 2 partners, thats cool, although obviously you havent thought of this before
Is it mostly his idea to move in together, do you like that idea at all. Do you like her and enjoy her company. are you planning to join her in sex.
If you not sure about this the relationship wont last. Sit and talk to him about it, tell him exactly how you feel and if you go ahead you should also have boundaries. if nessasary.
I can see it being fun if everyone is happy and truthful. but if not i think life would be terrible.
so make sure you know what you want and that you want a poligamy relationship
2007-09-28 02:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and you can accept this decision that he has made, you should stay with him. It is definitely important that you can come to terms with his relationship with this other woman, but if you think you may be able to, you should at least try to make it work.
The fact that he made the decision without you absolutely ridiculous to me, though. As a husband, he should have talked to you first.
2007-09-28 01:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Somebody2022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to what You know is to best thing for Your own personal lifestyle.
2007-09-28 00:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Horrible especially when thee is no cure for AIDS and HIV
2007-09-28 01:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Chayel 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋