im 37 weeks pregnant and i want to give birth now!!!?

Question

i want to give birth now. im becoming overwhelmed and have frequent crying spells over it oxytocin the hormone that triggers labor is considered the love hormone since ive been pregnant i have not felt any love besides for my baby i dont want nothing to do with sex and when my boyfriend trys to touch me or love me i cant stand it and i get very upset for no reason his touches makes me cringe and very agarvated does this mean that i wont go into labor? i cant even tell him that i love him back every time he trys to get intimate i get extreamly angry why is this? i fear im not producing any oxytocin and my body wants to keep my child in me forever i try to relax all the time but i cant do it its like my child isnt producing the hormones for labor just producing hormones of anger rage and anoyance im constantly pissed off and every day it gets worse that i havent had my baby yet why am i this way and every contraction that doesnt stay present gets me so furyous. i feel like im bein tesed

look people thanks alot for the answers but umm this is exactly the **** that pisses me the **** off. every one tells me this **** and i try and its impossible for me. alot harder done than said. i asked what could cause these feelings and why do i feel like im being raped by my boyfriend when all hes trying to do is love me?

yea judge all you want we are married in our and under god. i dont belive to add the govorment into the picture of love. they have no right to intrude on love there for i will not """legally""" marry him. he knows this and is ok with it. we are going to have a wedding in church. not a court house. god is the beholder of what we have. love. not a 40 dollar peice of paper.

p.s. its my fault were not ""married"" im am a true govorment hater. but a true god lover.

Answer 1

Hi there,
It sounds like you are suffering antenatal depression. This is more common than you think, about 10% of all pregnant women suffer from this during pregnancy to some degree.

It can be treated very easily. Been there everytime I have been pregnant. There are so many ways that it can effect the way you feel.

I am 34 weeks pregnant and have done about 0 shopping for the new bub. I have only just conviced my 23 month old to sleep in a big bed to free up the cot. I have no interest in shopping or getting ready at all.

Check out the links and talk to your care giver about how you feel.

I hope I have helped you.

Answer 2

RELAX!! Calm down! That is exactly what you need to do. Go for a walk do a little yoga do something but relax. That baby will come out of you when it is good and ready you cannot pick your date to have it! Just try to apologize to your boyfriend and tell him you still love him but you are frustrated and he's gonna have to deal with it a little while. The baby is not making you feel like this it's your hormones! The best bet is to relax because your not only putting yourself under stress your also putting the little one under stress as well! And no matter how you don't feel like it try to have sex. Sex is a number one trigger of going into labor.

Answer 3

Ok first of all you need to relax. The baby will come out of you eventually! I promise. As far you feeing the way that you do, alot of women feel this way during pregnancy because of the hormone changes. You do not want to force labor right now because even at 37 weeks, your baby might not be ready for the outside world. You have to remember due dates are estimates! They are not always accurate and can be off by a week or more. Just try to relax as much as you can.. I know it can be difficult..but you will get this baby out eventually. As far as the contractions you are feeling..they are most likely braxton hick contractions..which are getting you ready for the big day! Don't be furious with them, they are just getting you ready for it. If you keep feeling this way, please talk to your doctor because you could be at a much higher risk of developing post pardem depression.

Answer 4

Well I remember those days! Poor thing.. sheesh. Ok
a) as a women.. the less you do it the less you want it and this is being kicked up by a low sexdrive ...
b) you should asssure him its not that you hate him it just that you can't deal with that kinda thing at the moment, and girl works differently. I'm tell you from expeirence things will right themselves.. so you can tell him of course
c)the closer you get to your due date you can kinda help your decent into labor by having sex, something in sperm can trigger the start of labor.. so in about two weeks you can try to trigger your labor that way when it's safe for the baby. though your bf will have to wait 6 weeks before he can get any anyway LOL
d) have you talked about this with your doctor... I'm sure they'll have better words of advice for both you and the baby's father.

Answer 5

ok 1st of all..relax!! Go take a bubble bath and then go get a really good nap!! Because once your baby gets here, you will have to rush thru all the things you now enjoy. It's all about the baby then. Which is great. But i was just recently where you are right now. I was 4 days over my 40th week.So I really thougt i was never gonna have her! But guess what? I did. And she was healthy and beautiful. and all my anxious nerves that seemed to make me go mad and cry and go crazy all the time...just kinda stopped. It will get better. Prenancy is a roller coaster ride. And you just happned to be at the big crazy loop right before it's over. So hang in there, and be nice to your boyfriend...I'm sure he's confused as well with all your emotions....so try to relax. Especially when the big day gets here...if you relax your pains won't be as bad. So just remember it gets better!!

Answer 6

lol you are being tested, but not for the reasons u think, god doesnt want to see you upset but wants you to be happy when this baby does actually arrive..
everything you are going through right now is 100% worth the sweating, tears nd agrovation...
these past few weeks ive gotten over them emotions but i know how it feels to just want to sit in a corner and not talk to anyone...
Its a big thing to give up everything you would normally do to sit around being uncomfortable, not being able to eat probably, feeling fat hot and ugly lol no wonder us pregnant women get the shits.
the biggest thing that calms me down is sitting in our pool and just not talking for about 30mins, the water takes all weight and you feel resfreshed, if you dont have a pool.. sit in a bath.. or even under a shower
I really feel for ya hehe but you will have that little sweet bundle out in no time, and you will be thanking and loving your husband to peices for what the both of you have created.
good luck and just gets heaps of rest
xox bye

Answer 7

I felt the same way, its natures way of saying " HEY I'M READY" no more feelings of fear just wanting the baby out. Your totally normal your hormones are going crazy and you don't feel that pregnancy glow that is probably what 90% of women feel at the end just don't set around telling yourself when your going to have it. We would all have loved to have our babies at 37 weeks but believe me most first timers dont. Take lots of pics of yourself at this time that is my only regret I forgot how pregnant and miserable I was. he he

Sounds like you don't need to be on this site asking for help, you need to see a doctor, SERIOUSLY!

Answer 8

You need to calm down. Your baby will come when it's ready. There is nothing you can do except wait. I have been through this 3 times with my daughter. Go for walks and treat yourself to something that you like so you will feel better.

Answer 9

You just need to RELAX! I remember those last few weeks being hard and your uncomfterable and you just want it to be other with. It will soon enough don't worry. Enjoy your sleep now and your time to yourself. Trust me! :) Just try and enjoy these last few days/weeks. It'll be over and you'll be holding your newborn very soon. My son is 6 months old and I miss my pregnant belly!!!!

Answer 10

damn woman and i thought i was anxious..lol dont worry it will all be okay..just breathe!


edit:
and sex might not be a bad thing...if you really want that baby out then it wont hurt to try it..makes bf happy too :)