I feel like my bf and i are falling further and further apart. I hate it! I have given soo much to this relationship and he means the world to me. However, i'm not sure that he feels the same.
I feel like i'm the one always doing all the work. Putting in all the effort. sometimes i just feel like he doesn't give a damn..
YET somehow i still can't, won't break it off with him.. i am so attached and i really do love him.
But don't know how much longer i can go on like this..
it sucks soooooooooo bad + to top it off i'm going back into depression.
advice anyone?
2007-09-27 14:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
preferably from someone who's been through this before and knows how deep the pain can go. Deeper than i ever knew.
2007-09-27 14:50:13 · update #1
Dump him. You can never force someone to love you, no matter how long you wait.
2007-09-27 14:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first and foremost. i know what it's like to give and feel like your the only one in the relationship.
And this is sooo easier said than done, believe me i know,
but you have to get out of that relationship, because he is going to bring you down. maybe not physically or financially but mentally.
Some of us think that holding on makes us Stronger, when in reality it's letting go that does.
If he is not showing you the love and affection that you need right now, then your better off without him. I know that sometimes that's scary cause your so used to being with that person, but if your pulling all the weight, then your already without them just dragging him along.
When your depressed, not just feeling bad, but Clinically Depressed you feel like you are alone and you feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders, you feel like no one cares. sometimes you cant breathe, cause it feels to hard to do. but you have to, because there are people that care about you, you just have to let them know how you feel.
so i recommend that before you leave this guy. let him know how you feel. let him know that there needs to be change. if he just brushes it off or doesnt want to change, then you have to let him go.
i hope my words have been a little helpful to you
2007-09-27 15:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by babyg1rl_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why get so upset over one guy? there are sooo many in the world to chose from.
besides that, while you are busy being upset over him he is going on about his business and not even thinking about you.
i know it sounds harsh, but it is the truth. i know first hand.
2007-09-27 14:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 11:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋