What are some things that i can look for to see if he's gay? Please help! I really like him! But, i need to get over him if he is!
2007-09-27 13:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Annie S 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Gay signs? Well, in my experience, they're most often Libra, Gemini, or Aquarius. Of course ALL signs have a chance of being gay, but for some reason, the Air signs of the zodiac are more likely. There's only one gay guy at my school that ISN'T one of those three signs, and I'm a Libra myself. I think it could be because by nature, Air signs are more detached from the physical side of existence...also, each Air sign has interesting traits that lean towards homosexuality. Aquarius is eccentric, and ruled by the planet Uranus (haha), which is the planet ruling bi and homosexuality. Gemini is the sign known for its dual desires, making it a likely sign for bisexuality. Finally, Libra is ruled by Venus, the Goddess of Love, which makes almost all Libran males effeminate to a degree--also, it is the sign of balance, so the male and female aspects of the personalities of those born under that sign are equally balanced, and if they aren't, it's almost always toward femininity. Because of this balance Librans have, they can sometimes have equal attraction to both genders if not exclusively their own--it is the rare Libran male that doesn't have some degree of attaction to his own gender. So, if he's one of those three signs of the zodiac, he's probably more likely to be gay.
Oh, wait, you weren't talking about astrology, were you? Sorry. I saw the word "signs" and assumed that you were intelligent enough not to ask about stereotypes and "magic tests" that prove without err if a person is homosexual. I suppose I was wrong.
If you really want to know if he's gay, ASK HIM. The worst he could say is yes, in which case you'll have no choice but to get over him. If he says no, have fun going to the movies on Saturday night. That's the ONLY way to know whether ot not someone is gay as there are NO ways to tell just by looking at someone unless you have phenomenal gaydar.
2007-09-27 13:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by White Knight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he starts wearing a sign around his neck that says "I'M GAY" that's a pretty sure sign.
Otherwise...you're probably best off by asking him. Gay is not a phenotype (meaning something you can tell just by looking at a person)
2007-09-27 20:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The gay sign is when he holds up a sign that says "Gay Pride"
If there is no "gay sign", just ask him. Works like a charm.
2007-09-27 20:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask. also, see how he talks in public or around other guys. see if he flirts. try to not make it obvious that u r watching him! if he figures out that u r, he won't flirt. if he has a myspace, figure out what it is! check for rainbows or anything like that! even if he is gay, u can still be friends! u might even make him straight!
2007-09-27 21:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only sign I've ever seen is a rainbow bumper sticker on the cars. I don't think there's a secret handshake, lol.
2007-09-27 20:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... first start by watching him closely.. if he lifts his left leg 7 inches off the ground and lifts his right hand in the air 6 times... he's doing the gay mating call ...
You should just ask him... it's a whole lot easier than looking for a fictional mating dance.
2007-09-27 20:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Infamous Twit 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Da short hard answer is to just ask him...... Jeremy ..I was wondering if ya might be bi or gay......there ain't no signs....that's all Hollywood or crap on TV!
2007-09-27 20:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only sure way to tell if someone is Gay is to........................................................................................................................................... ASK THEM!!!!
2007-09-27 20:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by ©Diva© 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋