Well everyone has suffering, you should be more specific to what yours is like. I'm going to assume it's Libra related suffering. So I'll tell you this. In order to avoid an unpleasant scene, you will stifle your own true feelings. In fact, far too often you are not sure what your true feelings are. Because you try to be all things to all people, there is a general impression that you are indecisive. Underneath your genial, calm surface, you have to struggle in order to make decisions. The problem is that Libra's center is someone who does not feel complete in himself or herself. Beneath your brilliance and charm, you feel a psychic lack, something missing--whether this something is a perfect lover, a fulfilling career, a wonderful project that shows off your talents, etc. And so you spend a lot of time feeling that you're not "real," that you've conned others into thinking you're smart and successful, but very soon they'll find out you're a fraud. One of Libra's best hidden secrets is how shaky your self-confidence is--and certainly your sense of not being whole and creating a false front is at the core of your insecurity.
2007-09-27 12:06:14
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answer #1
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answered by JAS 6
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Oh. ..ok, then... My profile page just showed the main Q.... I was all EXCUSE ME???
I am a Libra. Libra's are sooo not stupid... my guess is if someone thinks we are, it's because of projection/transference... heh heh...
Librae (?... is that the plural?...) are always STRIVING for balance... so the pedulum SWIIIINGS back and forth... we try to see everyone's side of things.
Some Zodiac traits have proven themselves to me... that's one of them... like Virgos.. there is a right way (Virgo's) and a wrong way(not! Virgo's...) for instance...
Libras are just like everyone else... TRYing to understand. Of course (from a philosophical standpoint) EVERYthing is
temporary... I don't think that is a strictly Libra trait...
Here is the truth as I see it: LIBRAE are wonderful human beings! We try to give everyone the benifit of the doubt... We are mediators... we are NOT, however, fools! We can see when someone is beyond hope. (Ugly and stupid are both! to the
bone...) Libra is a great sign (I personally have always wished I was a LEO....) We are artistic, smart (!) generous, and above all KIND! (That could be where we get confused by some with stupid...) My best friend is a Libra, so I know these things...
You are not stupid, that is evident from everything you say, and every thing you say is kind, so I rest my case! So there! }:>
2007-09-28 08:38:42
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answered by Ja'aj };> 6
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I'm a Libra and I've never heard of Libras being stupid, but I do feel that Libras tend to put up with more crap from people (Libras crave balance-our sign is the scales) and that's what gets us walked on constantly! This will probably never change, as our sign is what we are born under, and we can't change our birthdate :) BTW, you're not the only miserable Libra
2007-09-27 12:02:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Says who? Libra is an air sign, thereby ruled by intellect. That makes them very smart! They may come off as stupid, because they love things to be pretty and beautiful. People will interpret this as shallow and stupid, but we're anything but! We love intellectual discussions and open-minded ideas. So whoever says this, hasn't gotten to know a Libra very well. I'm a Libra and a lot of people I know tell me I'm one of the smartest people they've met. Sure, I may try to look good and seem stupid on the outside, but once you talk to me, you realize, wow, this girl's got a brain! Looking good doesn't help anyone if you don't have a brain and personality to back it up!
2007-09-27 13:02:48
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm a Libra and I full heatedly understand how people can perceive us as stupid many times we present our ideas in a very abstract manner when I talk to other Libras sometimes I'm like what the hell are you saying when they align their thoughts to our understanding its like oh wow a ah ha moment happens libras may be genius and not fully know how to express it and when it comes to our heart and selfless actions towards love I would agree we can be down right stupid lol
2016-01-30 07:38:56
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answered by Lawrence 1
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I've never actually heard that Libra's are stupid. Kind of silly! But anyone that does, probably gets it from the idea that Libras are the people that strive for balance, which can lead to indecisiveness and difficulty making decisions.
2007-09-27 12:01:21
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answered by Anonymous
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People can feel Libras are stupid, because in all reality, they can be... No offense. But they tend to let their emotions run ramped 'n cloud their judgment. They can make hasty decisions and act quite stupid when it comes to friends as well.
I know 1 Libra guy who can't even live out on his own yet. He doesn't really know how to or when to say no, he gets distracted easily, he doesn't really seem to wanna work on anything, even the things he really needs to. Plus, he is very emotional and only thinks of the negative.
I don't think anyone is, "...destined to suffer and be miserable forever..." Especially not because of their Zodiac sign. I think it's only their choice, in reality. Like if this Libra guy I know would just think a little more positive and maybe shape up, then he could have a much better life. But it's only him that can do it.
People judge, but in reality, who knows why they do it? It's just them. Their minds, their opinions, their ways... Everything.
Hope this helps. Luck.
2007-09-27 12:45:17
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answered by Twili 6
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libras are not stupid at all, in fact libras are extremely smart, most people envy libras beacause they learn things in one day that people have been practicing for years, and do it even better at times, most libra childs ask so many questions all day that it gets annoying at times, and have a desire to learn thats, why when they grow up they are realy smart u might think they are stupid because they are indecesive but they just want to make right choices also if a libra is not interested in something or doesnt care about it he will just be day dreaming while ur explaining it to him and just be like "huh" but they are very stratigised they pretend to be stupid when u first meet them cause when people think ur stupid thats when u know u got every body, because u control their next move, thats how they get wut they want and find out who are realy their friends,they also use in competing or if they at war wit some body they are very good at chess art and allways find short cuts for every thing that work lol people that know libras well admire their ways and abilities people need to learn alot from libras
2007-09-28 05:46:07
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't know who said that. Two good friends of mine are Libras. They are witty,hard working and just crazy(good) I love Libras. I heard Libras can't make up their mine. That's means they are smarter then what people give then credit for.
2007-09-28 04:30:24
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think Libras are stupid. I'm married to that amazing Libra guy and I think he's really smart.
2007-09-27 12:32:20
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answered by Miss T 7
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