married, 2 kids, he gets up at 430. Is this average or should we be doing it more? Sometimes its twice a day in the 3 days a week though.....
2007-09-27 11:17:00 · 27 answers · asked by icedcoffeeaddict 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let me re-phrase...is that the norm for most couples in this type of situation. ??
geesh.
2007-09-27 11:36:04 · update #1
okay....some people are bitter...or need sex really bad. :)~ I will ask him what is normal for other couple I guess. ....ouch
2007-09-27 11:44:44 · update #2
My husband would be jealous.
Kudos to you both!
2007-09-27 11:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by jt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, not us. Are you both fully satisfied and happy with your sex life? That's the measuring stick, not what yahoo answerers say. Each couple is individual and what works for some doesn't work for others.
Re: 3 days a week, there's a joke that goes..
A therapist asked the husband how their sex life was. The husband says, "Hardly ever, about 3 times a week."
The therapist asked the wife the same question, how is your sex life. The wife says, "All the time, about 3 times a week."
Depends on your point of view. Often men want more sex and different than want women would be happy with. If that's the case, rather than asking him to live with less than optimal, how about increasing your drive? There are lots of natural supplements that will help with that. It's not necessary to take prescritptions to accomplish. Please E-mail me privately if you want more information. Also, educate him on a woman's need to be close emotionally and physical non-sexual touch, all of which helps get us in the mood. There's lots of interventions to make it better, but first you need to determine if it works now, or if it needs to get better.
2007-09-27 11:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like it once everyday but 3 times a week isnt bad most couples dont even do that much aftter a certain amount of time....but if u feel u need more u should get more from him but make sure to do the work cause if he is wakin at 430 then he must be tired...but every person has their own opinion on whats a lot and a lil....so like i said it depends on u and ur needs
2007-09-27 11:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by D.C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you've got kids, anytime is better than no time. Sounds like yall have a healthy sex life just keep up the good work and don't be afraid to jump in the shower with him at 4, maybe early but you deserve an early treat every now and then.
2007-09-27 11:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Understood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you two are happy with doing it 3 times a week then it's enough for the both of you because it's different for every couple. me and my husband we been married 15 years and we have 5 kids and if we have sex twice a week we are happy. so it doesn't matter how much sex you get as long as your happy with what you do get. this might be OK for you and your husband and not for others. so don't worry about it and be happy with what you do have.
2007-09-27 14:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by thydarknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days a week is a good average. After a while most couples dont hit it more than 20 times a month. Its a good average because you dont want to hae the relationship being based purely on physical intimacy.
2007-09-27 11:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no certain number of times that a married couple should be having sex per week. It's what ever both parties are comfortable with. As long as both you and your man are happy with the frequency, it's enough.
2007-09-27 11:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as to much sex. It's your choice on how many times you have sex in a week or day. If you enjoy having sex than go for it. The more the better.
2007-09-27 11:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on YOU and HIM not anyone else
if you both feel sex once a month is fine then
it... is
if you cant live without having each other
4 times a day then that is just fine
sex is just a part of that intimacy and sharing
of each other so as long as you make time for
each other and not just making it routine
ie SURPRISE him once in a while
if you initiate a lot then tease and hold
for him too
make pockets of time during day or evening
just to rest you head on his shoulder and
hug
a million different things you can do
but ABOVE ALL
dont second guess yourself
wP
2007-09-27 11:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Warriorpoet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it enough, too much, ok for you two? That's all that matters. You shouldn't be doing it more if neither of you feels like it - why force it? Whatever you guys are comfortable with. To me personally, 3x/week would be way too often, but to others it wouldn't be enough. To each their own.
2007-09-27 11:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax an do it when you want it! Even 1 or 7 times a week :)
Enjoy
2007-09-27 11:25:55 · answer #11 · answered by kristinakiki777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋