How can you be so sure? Do you have a GPS tracking system on your spouse?
Just curious.
2007-09-27 11:03:08 · 17 answers · asked by peggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wives only say that because they want to make themselves feel better. They actually have no clue. Take me for instance... I've been cheating on my wife for 3 years now and she's none the wiser!
2007-09-27 11:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 14⤋
I have been married 30 years. I know that my husband has never cheated on me. His word is the most sacred thing to him. He has never made a promise he didn't keep. He always is where he says he's going to be. After 30 years, I have absolutely no evidence of anything. Even when plans change or I show up where he is. And no I don't spy on him or follow him or track him. We discussed this before we got married and I told him that I would leave him immediately if he ever cheated for any reason. He is a man of his word. Not a surprise but so are all 4 of his younger brothers.
2007-09-27 11:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dusie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, after 13 years I have found my husband to be honest, sincere and respectful.
I know it sounds corny, but I believe in my heart that he is honest with me when he says that he would never do anything like that to hurt me.
Sometimes you just need to trust your spouse and the kind of a person he is.
2007-09-27 11:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by jt 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For me, it's because we worked through infidelity once in our relationship already. We've been there, done that, and gotten those t-shirts.
And we don't want any more of them.
We both know that there will be no "second chance" because this IS our "second chance". We both know that if either of us cheats, it's over. Period. The end.
So... I can either believe with all my heart that he wants this relationship as much as I do, and I can trust him implicitly because he has shown with his actions over the past 10+ years that he wants this relationship as much as I do...
...or I can live in a morass of doubt and fear and second-guessing, which will end up driving us apart anyway.
Given those options, I'll take the former, thanks.
2007-09-27 11:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was the first person to say that about my husband. I didnt think he had it in him to cheat on me. But not only did he just cheat, he had a 5 month long affair. I never saw that coming. I didnt think he was capable of lying to me like that and deceiving and betraying me like that, but he did. Noone can be sure of anything like that. Its all about faith and trust.
2007-09-27 15:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There really is no way for anyone to be sure that they won't be cheated on. All that you can do is trust until given a reason not to trust. That's what marriage is about.
2007-09-27 11:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because I chose him because he has integrity. We dated long enough to know that neither of us like cheaters; they disgust us. We also never lied to one another because we understood the value of 'setting the precedence'. In marriage, consistency is key. If you set the standard by which you are willing to play by then you know what to expect from one another.
If one accepts unfaithful behavior then one will always question whether or not their spouse would really be faithful throughout marriage. If you see a living example of what you value in the other person then trust is inevitable.
2007-09-27 11:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
We have a thing call TRUST, and know that our husbands are committed to us, love us and would never do anything to hurt us. That's how we know, some women think that their husbands feels this way when they really don't but i can tell you for sure that i am one of the lucky ones that know and can prove that my husband wouldn't do such a thing.
2007-09-27 11:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Pat's Angel 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You never can be sure. Even if he acts shady you've gotta sit back and give him the benefit of the doubt unless you've got proof. Don't ever accuse a guy with out proof cuz he'll do it for sure then.
2007-09-27 11:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by good girl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can feel it in my heart. The way he looks at me, talks to me, and loves me shows me that I am his one and only. It is the one of the few things in my life that I am absolutely sure of. He calls me from everywhere he goes, he tells me where he is going (never to bars, strip clubs etc). We both believe in Karma and he knows what goes around comes around. On top of that, he's been cheated on before and promised he'd never make me feel that way.
2007-09-27 11:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by hungryeyes001 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont say that beause it is naive! I feel sorry for women who think that, because those are the ones that are easy to cheat on!
2007-09-27 12:47:28 · answer #11 · answered by Lonely Turkey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋