I can't go 6 weeks without it, shouldn't it be ok since she is unable?
2007-09-27 10:58:05 · 66 answers · asked by stud M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-09-27 11:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Angelbaby7 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I don't know if you are serious or not, but I'll tell you what I did from experience after our kids were born. I didn't think about it much for the first few days because they required a lot of attention. The slightest noise in the house would make me get out of bed to check to make sure they were OK such as watching for breathing, etc. I was on pins and needles and sex was not a top concern. About two or three weeks later, I did have a sex drive again. I didn't want to bother my wife for anything at that point since she was really exhausted, so I offered her things like foot rubs, back massages, etc. and didn't focus on myself. I would masterbate sometimes, but it was mostly for a physical release. But well before the six weeks was up, my wife was very loving and performed oral sex and manual techniques without me even prompting her. It was some of the most memorable times actually in our married life because the closeness is so intense after you have a baby since you are on cloud nine. So, when you ask if it would be OK for you to have sex with another women because your wife gave birth to your child, the simple answer is NO. The more complicated answer is - NO because if you love each other you will find a way to release your sexual tension and remain faithful to your wife and baby. You are a father now and you need to start thinking in that mode.
2007-09-27 12:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to start having sex with other women, you should talk to your wife about it first. Sex is sacred when you're married, or in any kind of relationship. You can't just have sex with anyone unless theres an understanding between you and you partner that permits you to. If your spouse says you can't have extramarital sex, then don't. At this point, having sex with anyone else shows your lack for respect for your wife and your marriage.
And besides, sex is not a vital need, you can very well not do it for six weeks and survive. Try to consider the fact that your wife might also get strong sexual urges within the next 6 weeks that she can't fulfil because of her condition.
If you're really desperate, you can still masturbate, ask your wife to give you oral sex or have anal sex with her.
2007-09-27 11:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by hersheyshayer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not if you still want her to be your wife!! believe it or not.....you're not the first husband to have their wife had a baby, so you're not the first to have to wait for sex? She made a sacrifice to her body to have your baby, you can sacrifice sex for a few weeks. Besides, alot of couples don't wait the entire 6 weeks,maybe only 4-5 weeks. DO NOT pressure her, it will be a violation since her body needs to heal. If you got kicked in the balls and your nuts were too swollen to have sex, could she get it from another man?
2007-09-27 11:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to be the biggest moron, if you loved your wife you would not be asking such a retarded question. You do not love your wife or your child because you should be thinking of her and the baby not going without sex for 6 weeks. Trust me you do not deserve to get sex at all you piece of SH IT!!! I hope you do cheat on her and get caught!!! So she can see what kind of crapbag she married. You need help!! You disgust me !
2007-09-29 14:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. It will even be ok after she is better. In fact you should move a couple of them in to your house to help out with the baby, cleaning, etc. Of course, with you so busy with all these other women, once she heals she may need to find 2-3 other men, but since you are open about your marriage that should be ok with you, I am sure.
The alternative is to date Mother Thumb and her four daughters for the next few weeks.
2007-09-27 11:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Info_Please 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not know why people like you get a gift so beautiful from the Lord (the baby), you should be spending time with her and enjoying your new baby instead of thinking how to cheat on your wife,
People like you make this world sick.
Sorry for being harsh but its the truth.
2007-09-27 11:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by JUANA 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nah~~~~c'mon now, you can't be serious! I think you are very selfish and would benefit from working on putting your wife & child's needs before your own for this six weeks. Since this will probably be really hard work for you, you will be too tired to have sex.
2007-09-27 12:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by srvrocks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unles you wnat a divorce buddy. If you have such a problem with holding yourself down go to the local adult store and get you somthing there because i bet you that if you cheat on her she will leave you with the baby in her arms because you committed a crime in a womans state of mind
2007-09-27 11:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry, but didn't you just say you had a BABY with this woman?!!!!!!!!!! i'd like to see you 9 months with a kid in your body. why do you think she's healing?! you have a family now, be a good dad and love the woman who just went through childbirth for you- she suffered so unless you're weaker than a pregnant woman you can suffer without sex too
2007-09-27 11:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by MLreallyIA!!! 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
no!! you got her pregnant im sure as hell she isnt thrilled her coutie is all swollen and she is sore and bleeding non stop if she has to suffer so do you and the fact you even askedthe dumass question proves you dont deserve your wife she gave birth to a child for you be a man take care of her you dont need to worry about sex right now! dill hole
2007-09-27 16:39:21 · answer #11 · answered by his_wife72603 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋