2007-09-27 10:26:13 · 21 answers · asked by misskitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is she trying to meet guys? After college it seems to take more effort to meet men...like going out to public places where she can interact with them! If she's doing that, someone is bound to come along eventually!
2007-09-27 10:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's no longer pathetic. i know some little ones who've had 3 relationships by skill of the age of 17 and it has have been given them nowhere, back to 0. so which you've gotten a stack of meaningless relationships or anticipate a astonishing one to come again around so which you don't get left with each and every of the hangups. do no longer leap into something with a freak on account which you're beginning off to panic. i actual do no longer think of a guy will discover you a turnoff for no longer likely out with somebody formerly - the place are you to start from in spite of everything? carry in there, you're doing superb.
2016-10-09 22:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misskitty, there is nothing wrong with your friend and as a matter of fact this may be her decision at present. Perhaps she has been burnt in the past and/or heard horror stories about relationships or witnessed them. She may have even been victimized as a child and is not ready to yet trust a man with her heart. Or she may be devoting her live at present to a career and not have time for a relationship. You can discuss it with her and ask what she feels about being single or you can be happy for her that she is not in need of someone to help her make feel like her life is complete. If and when she wants a person in her life sounds like she won't have any problems getting someone to share life with, by you description of her anyway.
2007-09-27 10:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was the same boat as your friend. i was super friendly and when people asked about my relationship history, nobody believed because i seemed so outgoing. professional & successful, relatively attractive, good heart, etc.
however, when it came to guys, they were my kryptonite. the deepest issue is because of a lack of having a father figure in my life. that was my key. not sure about your friends. it always goes deeper than what's on the surface.
i didn't meet THE ONE until i started going out, being seen, and saying yes just to give it a chance. had my heart torn & shredded but finally met the one. the first 3 months were tumulteous because of misunderstandings on both our parts but with time (over one year), understanding and communication... he became the ONE. he is my first serious relationship (and hopefully the only).
on the flip side, my guy friends - i called them my "male advisors" said that i did seem intimidating because i was so financially set, independent, seemed to love life, etc. i didn't think i was intimidating at all and i didn't know how to tone it down. i didn't become more "girly" but i did put off a lil bit more "sexier" energy and guys seemed to react...well.
2007-09-27 22:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by mj012345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You aren't defined by how many relationships you've had or whether or not you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Maybe she is busy with other things. Maybe she has high standards. It probably wouldn't hurt for most people to worry about dating a little bit less.
2007-09-27 10:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might not be her. most guys are intimidated by strong and beautiful women. when she goes out she might just want to dress down a little though. nothing big, maybe just jeans and a plain shirt and sneakers. have her hair down if it is long and maybe just a little make up. i'm not saying she shouldn't be proud to be successful but maybe she shows it too much. but hey, if she wants someone to chat with and get to know maybe you can send her my way? LOL JK
2007-09-27 10:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by wyldkatcpw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing. There is pretty slim pickens out there if you ask me. There are too many jerks, and other assorted freaks. Don't bug her. She will know when she meets the right person. I didn't get married until I was 30 and it was still the wrong person because he was physically abusive.
2007-09-27 10:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Frosty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt want to start dating till things are settled for her...or maybe she isnt interested in a relationship now...theres a lot of reasons and if she wont tell u (u gotta ask) then let her be, theres nothing wrong with her
2007-09-27 10:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with her, her time will come. The more patient she is the right guy will come around for her. Love comes to you at unexpected times.
2007-09-27 10:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with her. She should try to get out and do more social stuff. You know? Love will come when its least expected.
2007-09-27 10:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋