Im a RACIST, and I cant help myself. Is there any help out there for me?

Question

Its not that Im against any other race besides blacks. I just believe birds of a feather should flock together, the melting pot is destroying us, and I also believe that racism is a naturally occuring emotion. It facilitates human migration. And ofcourse you are going to tell me Im wrong, so HOW do I fix this?

Answer 1

You could try actually spending time with some black people and realize that they are no different than you and I. There are bad black people and there are bad white people.

Answer 2

Well - that's a tough question. First off, are you really a racist?

Here are some quick questions that will clear it up:

1. Do you believe that black are inferior to whites and why?

If you say they are inferior, just because of their skin color. That's being racist. However! If you are saying that you dislike them for their culture then your roots are in ethnocentrism and not racism.

The culture of the inner city is animalistic, uneducated, savage, and inhuman. However, this doesn't mean that it's just black people doing it... the whites, mexicans, and all people in those situations are the same way.

I lived in the Inner City, the very poorest streets. I saw some of the worst things there... and it was everyone who was involved. Everyone there is lost in the system. Despair, too much goverment control on their financial lives, drugs, horrible family lives, and iresponsiblity all lead to lives they live.

I used to think I was a racist, but I'm not. For instance, I like Micheal Jordan, Colin Powell and Martin Luther King Jr.

I happen to despise the Rv. Jessie Jackson, and Rv. Al Sharpton, the Black Panthers... and the KK. Mainly because they all help to perpetuate and foster the hatreds that would die if they were just addressed in a less political manner.

I live in a state where certain portions of the polulation get preference for their color, gender, and sex. I am a white male. I am not set-up to get any scholarship, I'm not set-up to get any special treatment. I think I'm lucky for that because I have to get their myself.

I get told that I'm the oppressor everyday and you know what? I started to believe that, and I started to finally do that, but when I moved into the inner city I realize that most racists don't even know what they really despise.

Its not the color of the skin, its the culture that blacks have been portrayed in. Not all black live in the inner city, a lot of them live in suburbs right next to you and me, they live the same as you and I, raise family like you and I, work just they way you and I work.

So - this is my question: what do you really hate? Do you hate a man for the color of his skin, or do you hate what you THINK he stands for? If it is what you THINK he stands for, then you are not too far away from the cure!

Look at the good examples of black people, one's you can identify with. When you see a black guy, don't think Snoop Diggity Dog, think Micheal Jordan... of course, if he happens to be dressed like Snoop, hold a glock like Snoop, and has an angry jacked up look like Snoop, and he's hold a joint in his hand... you may want to pity his embrace of the wrong role model... but not the color of his skin.

Answer 3

Step one is get away from the democrat party, which teaches minorities of every stripe that they are not competant enough to succeed in life without the help of the democrats. Step two is take a good look at who appointed Clarence Thomas, Condoleeza Rice, and Alberto Gonzales to their jobs. Gonzales couldn't hold up under the democrat onslaught, but his integrity is still intact. Rice is the finest Secretary of State in recent history, and Clarence Thomas is one of the most respected justices in the history of the Supreme Court. President Clinton did appoint a black woman to a high position in government. Jocelyn Elders. Nothing more needs to be said.

Answer 4

Well, maybe it will help to look at it this way...
If you have a value that's based on a negative, and racism or prejudice are negative (anti-) values... how many positives will it take to weaken that value? If you have a genuine friendship with someone who's a different race, does that make your value system weaker? Or does it take two friendships? Basically, values are supposed to provide a solid foundation for our lives. So if you've got a value that starts out as weak because it can be contradicted by a positive experience, how useful is that value to you?

Answer 5

There is a simple way to fix this problem. racisim is hatred. Its diffucult to imagine that someone could hate another ....just for thier skin color. Its really diffucult to hate.Unless there has been harm done to you. Like you....I believe in the same basic things you do. I realize that most blacks only care about how much they can get from the whites,and how many white women(are stupid enough) that they can get with. This isnt racisim at all.....Its REALITY.... Those that oppose your views.....Have no argument when you say the TRUTH.... Tell them "Im not a racist. I dont hate anybody" "Im a realist" Just say it the way it is. The truth allways hurts the enemy....

Answer 6

I'm Mexican -American and I have been known to be bias. I too think we should stick together and that the melting pot is destroying us. You don't see as many problems in nations that are majority of one race as you do here. I have felt racism.
I also lived in Mexico for a few years and never felt so comfortable here as I did there. However, I have friends of all colors and races and enjoy their educating me. I also have two granddaughters that have boyfriends of a different race and I need to embrace them because I love my grandchildren.

My suggestion to you, is to make friends with other races and like me educate yourself. Learn about their culture, their likes and dislikes, their goals. You will see that they are not much different than you.

Answer 7

You don't need any help. Simply read, if you can sit through it long enough: "The Anglo American Establishment " by Bill Clinton's mentor. You will find that you are not remotely alone in being racist, and that many of our highest ranking elite are racist too. They make no excuses and easily state,"We ARE better than everyone else."

Unfortunately, "better than everyone else" also means better than people who are not members of the 2% of the world who control everything-probably leaving you out of the game. So while you have bought into their racist concepts and propaganda and will likely make a useful tool when they call for the elimination of "low level black and brown" adults and children like my family and I; unfortunately for you, it is all too likely that you and yours will need to go too(vaccine gone bad? or some other mishap) or simply work in servitude for life for your rich/elite and superior Anglo brethren-who could careless about Democracy and actually abhor it.

Answer 8

I won't tell you that you are wrong, in fact real life tends to prove you are right. For the most part it has been the case that people of different races have had trouble living together, I don't see this as a good thing or a bad thing, just a natural occurrence.

Answer 9

all these feelings you have are learned behaviors, passed down to you by your parents or your family ... racism does not naturally occur

.. which means it can be unlearned, the only catch is it requires the effort on your part

if you really are interested I would seek counseling from a professional therapist or psychologist

'the melting pot' is working beautifully for me, I wouldn't have it any other way ... I chose to be a part of my world, i am not afraid

Answer 10

I do not consider myself racist.
I do not however believe that the only way is to systematical work and preach mixed marriages like some do.
Again I am not against mixed marriages, but many who do just want to screw around in the guise of improving relations.

Answer 11

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I'm a racists too. I only want the human race to coexist. As for Klingons and Romulins, I would have a tough time dealing with that.
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