a baby? your action, reaction? thanks!
2007-09-27 09:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by steven25t 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
gypz: sorry to say, sometimes there are boyz
2007-09-27 10:04:25 · update #1
Opinionated: ok LOL..yes sometimes, but that's not an answer :)
2007-09-27 10:10:21 · update #2
I can tell you from personal experience that Opinionated is right. I had my son at 16 and ended up with the father until I was 22 and we ended up with another child. The relationship was abusive and I just wanted to die. People thought because we were together and things looked right that that was all the mattered. He was technically there but he wasn't involved in anyway but abusively with me or the children. What I would recommend is being there for your sister and being a great uncle for her baby. We ended up moving across the country when I was 22 and I was then a single mom with 2 kids in a state I didn't know anything about. Because if we didn't leave he was going to kill us. Take it as a blessing because we can't see the big picture. Like I said just be there and be the best uncle you can. The baby is going to need you.
2007-09-27 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jellicle Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
The first thing I'd do once it's born is contact a lawyer and sue his *** off for Child Support, and keep track of where he lives, what he owns and his employment. This way when he suddenly owns a $500, 000 house with a small mortgage or gets a well-paying job you can go to court for an order to seize the equity in the home and raise the monthly payments.
2007-09-27 09:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would not have a baby with any man I wasn't married to...period.
If I made the choice to have a baby, I would have to hold myself to that choice. Why spend the rest of my life chasing after some boy to make him pay for a decision that I made?
2007-09-27 09:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the child's sake I would continue trying to get the father to realize the importance of his role in the child's life. I would also encourage her to live with her parents so the child would have a family unit and not just a single parent.
2007-09-27 10:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by gypz9 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes that is a blessing.
2007-09-27 10:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋