knew someone that came out but didnt seem gay at all?
2007-09-27 09:36:15 · 23 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, myself.
I wasn't the stereotype, I never was.
2007-09-27 09:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Me. Look at my photo on here. And I have basically no gay stereotypical personality. Some people have even known me for some time and still question that I'm gay! I have been in a gay relationship for 3 years too, and some still don't believe me. It's weird!
Once, when I was coming out, some other gay guy told me, "We're going to have to teach you how to be gay." It made me think, "Yeah, you're right! I do have a lot to learn!" But then when I came to my senses I realized that I had nothing I needed to learn about "how to be gay"!
I just need to be me and maybe help straight people, and apparently some gay people too, understand that there are gay men out in this world that are just plain men, that like sex with other men. And to me that's the only definition for a gay male: wanting sex with men rather than with women.
2007-09-27 10:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They would probably seem gay if you saw them having sex with another man. That's the only sign you can rely on. We don't have tattoos on our foreheads, green skin, or a tail. Gay men have all kinds of looks, from very conservative to far out; and they work in every job imaginable, from doctor to sewer worker.
2007-09-27 09:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes Me, several years ago when I showed up at a Gay Pride Parade in my Military uniform to participate with the Color Guard to lead the parade.
2007-09-27 09:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Robert W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, myself. No one knew that i was gay until i told them.
2007-09-27 10:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean someone who came out and wasn't a STEREOTYPE. Geez... not every gay is feminine. My parents still don't think I'm gay because I'm not very feminine. It's such a joke.
2007-09-27 09:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I get it all the time (I'm actually bi, but I'm married to another woman, so close enough.) I'm very femmy, at least until I start telling jokes or talking about NASCAR and DIY work at home. My brother is very metrosexual, so we both hear that he should have been the queer one, too!
2007-09-27 10:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't known many gay people, but from what I understand, not every gay guy, for instance, is "effeminate". I don't think "visual" clues are very reliable.
2007-09-27 09:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by transplanted_fireweed 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i won't be able to (rhymes with aunt) have faith you asked me that. Accents are atypical to the guy listening to them. Obsession is extra suitable than a physique spray. Are you so into Australian accents or what? We sound great no count what.
2016-12-28 05:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with avatar-less. I never seem to be gay to anyone! Is that bad?
2007-09-27 09:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got myself a rainbow choker but... still... no one has any idea... :(
my g/f and I talked about how I don't look gay... it was a joke... but we couldn't figure out how to make me look gay...
2007-09-27 10:07:02 · answer #11 · answered by u_fas_n8me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋