If a guy is married why do they insist on still going to the strip clubs? Especially when they see and get whatever they wanted at home without paying? Just curious
2007-09-27 09:17:16 · 22 answers · asked by adever23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a better question is why not....now they can bring the wife...and explore together after getting home.
2007-09-27 09:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
It depends. Is he going once a week or once a year? If it's too often he may be addicted in which case he needs help. Most normal guys go for the enjoyment of seeing some one else for a change. It's a different category of excitement, you can look but can't touch, very exotic. Try it at home some time and he might not go as much. Don't tell him you're planning on it though, just surprise him. You could even give him some singles!
Some guys go for the idea that all these "hot" girls want them. It's an ego boost.
2007-09-27 16:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by cardoordent82 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys do, mine does not, to him, I am everything he wants me to be!!!! But mine does not see the thrill in that, and I guess I am just blessed that way. Why should I go to a club myself, and look at other men, I am true to my vows, and I married the most wonderful man in the world!!! He can be anything I want him to be also!!! :)
I do understand your question, and I wonder that also, but I have been married to the same wonderful man for fifteen years, and we have the most wonderful relationship and marriage, we know eachother inside and out, and we are comfortable with eachother, so when it comes to strip clubs, they are out and I am in!!!! :)
2007-09-27 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of fella's go to socialize with their peers. Some go I suppose thinking falsely that some of these much younger young females actually are interested in them. While others go and spend some money for these ladies to perform sexual favours for them. Lots of men go just to see pretty young females strut their stuff and get prepped to return home to their partners in a pretty randy mood. Personally, I know it makes me sound real old and cheap, but I refuse to go to these spots any longer as it can be a very expensive habit to get into to pay a lovely young lass to have a table dance for you. Why pay someone 5 - 10 bucks to do a dance for me when I can come home and see my lovely wife. Although she may not get all dolled up and step up on a table (or whatever) and do a performance for me I am still grateful to have her to return home too. She is more than enough for me and I don't need to show off for my buddies how much extra cash I have to throw around at these girls.
2007-09-27 16:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really need to read some of the questions being posted in this section. Married men do not get whatever they want when they want once they are married. Wives do, and if they don't they hold out on them. This is only in reference to the dozen or so questions I have read in the past hour, so don't shoot the messenger.
2007-09-27 18:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't go to strip clubs, but ahhh tell your husband just to look at porn, because you don't want all those nasty women dancing on him and possibly doing other sexually favors....bringing home STD's. Spice up your life in the bed room, dress up real sexy and give your man a strip show. Watch some naughty movies with him. Try having sex in a public place, but if that doesn't work then divorce the jerk.
2007-09-27 16:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You answered your own question
"they can see and get whatever they want at home"
They like the idea of this woman they can't have, she's a bad girl. The erotic idea of paying cash for it, but knowing deep down they can't have her. Not just because she wouldn't have them but also because their married.
Not to say you need to start charging or stop putting out, but get a little more erotic for him, and not because you want to act like that woman at the club, but because you really want to be extra naughty. Good Luck
2007-09-27 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't get "whatever I want at home" and I still don't go to strip clubs!
It is a lack of respect for your wife!
I like the hot rod comment! BUT what if you have a "hot rod" at home that you don't get to drive but once a month?????
2007-09-27 16:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My husband has no interest in strip clubs...they are a total waste of money according to him...Would rather save our money and do something more worth while.
2007-09-27 16:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we want to look. Sure we can see you at home, but it's not the same. Just like men are not created equal, neither are women. The ones at the club are HOT, that's why they dance at the club.
2007-09-27 16:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
did you say still??? if he was doing it before and he was getting away with it then why do women think that he is going to do something different after they get married.... ? LADIES be warned.... whatever bad habits they have before you marry them they will continue to have after they are married... and don't fall for the after we are married i'll bla bla bla... if they want to marry you they should change their ways long before the wedding day.... and we wonder why divorce rates are so high... we are excepting crap and expecting it to not be crap... if it stinks... it's crap
2007-09-27 16:24:52 · answer #11 · answered by Jeanette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋