we have being married for a little over 2yr have a 1yr old son. I do have a nice body and people say that all the times, but everytime i go shopping my husband goes with me and he won't let me wear any clothes that are my size which is 2 but he alwasy wants me to wear size 6 or 7 it doesn't look right on me when i told him isnt my size he say you want wear tight cloths so every man looks at you and think about ******* thats what men do. Im only 20 yr old and he wants me to dress like 40yr old woman I never wear anything that shows my chest or any thing abot the knee, I don't know what to do??
2007-09-27 08:41:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your a Mom and a wife....act like it! You probably are a attention seeker.......and he knows it.
Get over yourself, you are married with a kid. The party IS OVER!
2007-09-27 08:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you should be happy that your husband respects you so much. Maybe you guys need to have a little sit down to figure out why he really feels you shouldn't wear your size. You can probably talk it through. No respectful man wants other men staring at his woman.
2007-09-27 08:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is very controling i would put a stop to this immediatly he will only get worse. You have to get a back bone and stand up to him you are your own person and no one has the right to tell you what to do. If he dosent stop i would leave.
2007-09-27 09:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by plynn_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
i'm having the same problem my mom & hubby want me to dress like 40yrs old
i'm 21
2007-09-27 08:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
***RED FLAG*** I would say this is the BEGINNING of him starting to control you. It will ONLY get worse.
If he won't let you shop alone or wear the proper size clothing it won't stop there.
talk to him now and tell him he needs to stop or move on without him
2007-09-27 08:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by linda_c_44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you what to wear, he's controlling.
If you LET him control your behavior, you're foolish.
Your son is now learning how to control women.....is that what you want him to know?
Get counseling ASAP or get out.
2007-09-27 08:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very controlling to me and possibly psychologically abusive. You two need counselling.
2007-09-27 09:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go shopping alone.
And yes, it sounds like he's being a bit controlling. He is most likely insecure with himself and is unfortunately taking it out on you.
2007-09-27 08:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by betterlife_travel 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like he's controlling. Do you really want to live your life like that?
2007-09-27 08:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by tjmoore83102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is dealing with his own issues and taking it out on you. he has self esteem issues big time. and it sounds as if he is being psychologically abusing. not good. seek counseling
2007-09-27 08:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋