PLEASE HELP EMAIL ME!!!!!!!! Its been 6 weeks my bellys getting bigger
2007-09-27 07:38:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey mom, guess who's coming to dinner?
2007-09-27 07:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by lynda d 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know you are scared, but you need to do what is best for you and the baby right now which would be telling your parents. Then they can schedule an OB/GYN appointment so that you can begin the proper care under a doctor.
You are going to face some tough decisions, but remember those decisions are for YOU to make, not your parents. You will have to live with the decision you make the rest of your life.
Please feel free to email me if things do not go well as there are tons of resources available (Planned parenthood, etc) to offer support and services from providing doctor care, to baby equipment, clothing, couseling, etc.
Good luck and know that I am praying for you.
2007-09-27 15:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by julie744527 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a good idea, a Congratuations for being a Grandparent card sounds good. It's lovely, nice, and simple, they'll get the subtle hint, and you can write all about it from there without awkwardness or conflict(yet). How you made a mistake, you realized your faults, how you'll stay in school and have the baby, all that good stuff...
Hopefully you'll be spared from any traumatizing distress, yelling, and lectures. I do hope your parents are kind and understanding people, because some parents out there will abuse their daughter or kick her out of the house... And there are some parents who are overjoyed they'll be grandparents-not what you expected but okay....
Or you can wear a very large T-shirt...
2007-09-27 15:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by jm7 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At this point the only thing you can tell your rents is the truth. The sooner the better. It is going to totally suck. I'm not goin to lie, but for your safety and the safety of the baby, tell them. I really hope it doesn't happen toyoubut if something goes wrong it's better if they already know than have it sprung on them when their emotion arerunning on overdrive worrying over you. And the sooneryou get it done,the sooner they'll cool down. Good luck.
2007-09-27 14:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your really young and need someone to be there for you. Im 20 and preg. and am scared shitless. lol First things first tell "him" and see what he plans on doing.(he might not react the way you think so prepare yourself) Then you must tell your parents, if you have a older brother or sister you might want to tell them first and have them be there when you tell your parents,you'll want someone on your side. But sweetie as far as keeping the baby or not it is YOUR choice and no one elses. Remember that. Good luck and email me if you need any more advice.
ilove_noah@yahoo.com
2007-09-27 14:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION tell your parents if they are good parents they wont get mad because it will stress u out more than u already are and that is not good for a pregnant women and they should know that if you dont want the baby put it up for adoption good luck i really wish you the best!! : )
2007-09-27 16:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by bw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey,
First thing first,you nee to tell your parents b/c you need to go to the doctor. I wish you the best. Keep your head up! Everything will work out for the best!. Maybe write a letter telling them. if you need to talk to someone. You can email me. Jpooh110@aol.com
2007-09-28 11:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 6 weeks pregnant that means you barely have even found out. If your belly is already getting that big you need to be checked for twins or more. Otherwise just tell her straight up! "mom i was irresponsible and had unprotected sex and now i am pregnant. You might want to get me tested for stds too JUST IN CASE!"
2007-09-27 14:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of three beautiful kids. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just sit them both down and tell them you have something very important to tell them and just say "i think im pregnant" and then tell them you want to keep the baby and what your plan on doing w/ your life have a game plan w/ everything.
and also put it to them this way if they don't want to be there for you and your baby there is alot of places you can go: churchs, other familys, shelters, etc... but let them know if it does come to that they won't see you or your child ever again
also its important to know soon were the guy stands on this and his family too
good luck and god bless!
2007-09-28 10:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl we on the same page but i don't know how many weeks i am but ma mom found out she didn't trip she cant do anything but say "drop out of school'' but ME on the other hand going to get home school but yea email ME at sharya2cute2bu@yahoo.com in tell u real deal about your issues
2007-09-27 14:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by drama life give to meh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy your parents a congrats on becoming a grandparent card. They will figure it out. They will still love you. Tell them who the father is, so that he can be made to pay child support once the baby is born if you decide to raise your baby. Please either keep your baby or give your baby a new home to loving adoptive parents.
2007-09-27 15:15:06 · answer #11 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋