2007-09-27 06:44:38 · 43 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes woman still want nice guys.....=] I have one and I wouldn't trade him for the world....the whole rebel stuff gets really old really quick...=]
2007-09-27 06:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by #25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically everyone woman who is looking for a significant other to share their lives with wants the 'nice guy' however, in many instances first impressions aren't always reliable and can be deceiving causing one to find out the hard ways that many of the guys that seem nice and 'datable' land up being the jerk-offs that bring a woman down. The reason that it may appear that women like these type of men is because a.) they haven't really seen the true side of the guy's character b.) have invested too much time and emotion into creating a relationship with that person c.) have low self-esteem and think that they deserve less then what they actually do (hence settling for the jerk-off d.) think that they can make the guy change. It is sad that many women will come to realize that some of the guys that they are dating aren't who they really were in the beginning but many will take that as a lesson learned and use that experience so that they do not end up in a similiar situation again and will hopefully be closer to meeting that 'nice guy' who seems to be 'part of a dying breed'. I dated a lot of idiots and was married to the 'king of jerk-offs' but I learned a lot about warning signs and what to look out for and actually found one of the nice guys and couldn't be any happier. I just hope more women are able to find their prince without having to kiss so many frogs in disguise.
Don't compromise who you are for someone else, someone will come along and appreciate your kindness and give you the love, repsect, and companionship that you deserve.
Good luck and take care : )
2007-09-27 06:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no you don't! Do NOT believe it, no matter what a woman tells you. Tell me something, are the women in your life who are suggesting this nonsense sleeping with you? I doubt it.
Take a good look around you. The fact is, that despite what women are SAYING, it's the "bad boys" that women find sexually attractive & end up pursuing!
In the game of attraction - NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!
Does this mean that women don't want good men? No it does not. Does it mean that you cannot be a nice guy? Of course not....
What it means is, that if you want to get the girl, BE A MAN - in every way. If women wanted castrated, wishy-washy men, they'd be involved with other women.
ASK ONE! You'll be surprised that the answer will be exactly what I'm telling you.
Don't wind up being one of those men who ends up alone & wondering WHY women only want to be your FRIEND!
And remember, being a nice man does NOT mean letting women walk all over you. The MOMENT they know they can, they will disappear.
Take it from a semi-reformed nice guy - I know exactly what I'm talking about. I adore women & I can honestly say that the reverse is true!
Good luck, my friend.
2007-09-27 21:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by David L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe women still look for the "nice" man. I would have to say a good majority hold out on hooking up with the "nice" guy till they are ready to settle down. I personally have gone through about over 10 butt heads and I am now with a "nice" guy. I do miss the mean guy sometimes though, but I could not ask for a better companion to be with for the rest of my life.
Oh and one more thing, just remember sometimes being too "nice" can get you walked all over, so choose who and who not to be nice too. I have watched my ex-friends date the "nice" guy just to go and cheat on him and take his money, which ends up turning that "nice" guy into one of the asses. Of course this does go both ways.
2007-09-27 06:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~Caryn~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do
And I was one of the lucky ones - I found one
A really nice man who I have been married to for over 20 years
But I kissed a lot of frogs first - I think what other women have said may be right - we seem to have to go through this first before we realize that frogs are not where its at
Good luck on your search - you are going in the right direction and they still exist out there - i.e women who like nice men
2007-09-27 06:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the nice guys....I have tried the other alternative and it sucks...and another thing, I don't ever try to change a man because that is asking for trouble, if he/she is a certain way when you meet, its either accept them for who they are or leave ...and try to find someone who you think you may change or someone who is more to your liking....I want someone to accept me for who I am, and if we love each other as much as we say, then ,on our own time, if something about us is bothering the other person and we see it, we wiil make our own changes...without any help from others...
If the other person loves you , they will accept you for who you are...regardless!!
And yes I think you are a dying breed, only a few good ones left..
2007-09-27 06:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by shortstuff68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bad women that you pick up in bars want an evil man. But the nice women still want a nice man. Find one in a church. See Angel and the Bad Man. He was a gunslinger. She was a Quaker. She turned him into a good man. Love conquers all. A young John Wayne and a beautiful Gail Russell (who went onto private life. Darn it.)Great movie. Filled with Clishe's and new ropes and such. Harey Carey Sr. was the sheriff.
2007-09-27 06:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by thomas m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you are not a dying breed. I think most women are so used to putting up with sh*tty guys, that when a nice one comes along, they don't know how to respond. that's how I was when I first started dateing my current guy (we have been together for 6 yrs now).
Don't take it personally....they probably need to work on their self-esteem & realize that they are deserving of a nice guy. It will happen for you...probably when you least expect it.
Good luck!
2007-09-27 06:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by shahlagoddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"IF" I was looking for a man, I would look for a nice man. One that has manners, opens the door for me, helps me with my coat etc.
You may be a part of a dying breed but please don't change, there are women out there that are looking for a man like you.
2007-09-27 06:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lynn M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think that some women still look for a man who is nice.
2007-09-27 06:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Tony M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I want a man that is a little hard to get, want a man that smiles and has fun, and takes his time before asking me out...I want a sweet soft kiss on my cheek, when he meets me, and he will make me want some more kisses, eye contact is so important, I notice if a man turns toward me, and is interested in me.......a woman can tell, and nice is always a winner, you will find the right person........
2007-09-27 06:54:09 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet Judy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋