I've always wondered what people think about that, to be really honest sex is not of a great concern to me. I'd rather make that special someone in my life be loved, cared for and respected in other ways.
Sure I can understand that it's a bonus but it seems nowadays that no matter who you meet it's always only on the basis of I'll got with you as long as your up for having sex with me. My friends has set me up at the weekend with a girl and they've already told me she's looking for that sort of thing. What's your opinions on this matter, does it make me weird for respecting women and caring for them more than just them being a one night stand?
Thank you
2007-09-27 06:42:44 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Your just one of the good guys that are left in this world. Isn't it strange that back in the days, sex was the last thing you worried about when you went on a date, but now, its a huge thing, and you have the right to be what you are. In my opinion, sex is not a huge thing people just make it out to be this way, there is so much influence by friends that just think that is they way it should be. But really, there are girl's out there, that just want to go out on the first date and just want a nice dinner and movie with no sex involved! They just think that is what every guy wants! Your not weird because you just want to meet the right girl to share this with, and not every girl on the street that passes you by.
2007-09-27 06:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People with extremely low or no sex drive are A-sexual...
But you dont sound like your not into it at all you just prefer the whole person, the personality, the pure act of being with someone, which is a wonderful thing. It needs to be recognised more!!
Oh and may I add I'm now a tiny bit in love with you!
2007-09-27 06:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, not making sex the number one priority in a relationship is completely different than not being interested in sex. If you are not interested in sex at all when you are dating women, I would suggest that you try dating a man and see if that might interest you. If you are just saying that it is not a priority, that's not abnormal at all, and you will be a much happier man when you marry.
2007-09-27 06:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by rickb3825 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you low on hormones. If you really want to change your life and get into sex then consult your doctor and see if there isn't a way to raise those hormone levels. Otherwise you can be content and happy just the way you are (why should you have to change just to please other people and frustrate yourself, you should be yourself). There are lots of women out there not that interested in sex, just ask around and you'll find her. Your life is yours to enjoy.
2007-09-27 06:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abbey Normal? Just kidding. Some people just aren't as crazy about it as others. That's fine. I life for it and count the minutes until the next time. Six Years - Sexaholics Anynmous, and still struggling.
2007-09-27 06:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres many ways to look at it. i mean we all have temptations guys and girls, if a girls wants to have some fun and if you want to have some fun then go for it. it won't hurt anyone. that's life i mean half of this world is guys and the other half is girls and it's just the way of living and having fun. but don't take advantage of them then that would be wrong. but if a girl wants to have fun with you then there's no harm. there's still a matter of respect.
2007-09-27 06:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that, everyone's sex drives and urges are different, so who's to say whats "normal"? BUT, if you have a total lack of sexual interest, I would check into it, if I were you. If you have ever had anything happen to you in the past that involved sex, (abuse), I would also seek professional help, it could stem from that.
2007-09-27 06:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by iamsilvermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several names for it. A woman who isn't interested in sex is called "frigid". Most guys who aren't interested in sex are actually gay. But there are a few men who want to wait until they are married. They are called men of principle, and usually have a moral reason for waiting.
2007-09-27 06:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Serena 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think u r the greatest and the unique person alive on this planet, if u ain't a virgin, because I don't know of any planets, if this happens there. It's really unorthodox to this real world. Keep it up!!
2007-09-27 07:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Syed S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have morals and high standards and if sex is not a great concern of yours it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you it's up to you what takes priority in your life... live for you no one else, allow yourself to just be....
2007-09-27 06:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋