If you are, what makes you happy? If not, what makes you unhappy?
Thank you everyone in advance.
2007-09-27 05:52:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I work with people with severe mental health problems ......and everyday i count my blessings and think their is always someone worse off than myself ........so take everyday as it comes and smile .........it doesn't cost anything to smile :)
2007-09-27 05:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Iam Happy
2007-09-27 10:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not in the slightest. I can't answer the question as to why I'm not happy, but I do know that I've don't remember ever being happy. I think it's a collection of all the bad things that have happened in my life that have made me jaded and bitter.
2007-09-27 10:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Carly Summer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! it is honestly just the little things in life that makes my life simpler that simply makes me happier. I'm just a happy person. I love to laugh and make funny lame jokes all the time. what makes me happy? It is usually the feeling of life and love. When I feel loved or when or people do something that shows that they care-it makes me happy. Making people happy makes me happy. I'm also happy whenever I have accomplished something, especially if it is something challenging. people makes me happy. I love my friends and family- including my puppy! doing fun stuff makes me happy too! I love to party, hangout with friends, go star gazing, being out in the sun, at the beaches-just about anything that involves with having some fun! its funny if you ask me. I find many things enjoyable; I am adventurous so I love to do anything thrilling like roller coasters, diving, surfing, hiking. I also love to do things that are soothing and therapeutic such as listening to soothing music, getting a message, taking a bubble bath. Sometimes, I like to be alone at a quiet place just to read by the fireplace, or where it is warm and cozy so no one disturbs me, As you can see, manythings makes me happy! even you made me happy! thanks! :)
2007-09-27 05:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my life sooo... I guess that makes me happy! I love my school, friends, family, and basically everything. (Besides my sister when she's being annoying) I changed to a bigger school (with all the same friends) so I like the new experiences. My friend is always staring at some hot/cute guy we pass in the halls and she even nicknamed them so someone else doesn't know who she's talking about. lol. The group I hang with is the kinds that make funny jokes and jokes about each other but, all with good fun. I LOVE to laugh/smile it just brightens up your day when you at least try to smile. Like I said before I love my life!
2007-09-27 09:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by xXCeeLee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. I am happy with the guy that I am with, he makes me very happy but our financial situation is not where we would like it to be! If we could get that straight so we didn't have to stress then I would be really happy! How about you?
2007-09-27 06:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by ???? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy with all aspects of my life. I have a wonderful husband, a great family, and close friends that I adore! My life has turned out a heck of a lot better than I thought it would! As my father always tells me "Strive to be happy & you will be."
2007-09-27 06:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Bright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am happy. thank you for asking.
what makes you happy/unhappy is yourself, depending on how you take certain events. you are in control of your life, and your moods whether you realize it or not, but at the same time you're not. confusing? no? let me put it this way.
imagine 2 people. 1 you like and 1 you don't like (for whatever reasons) whenever you are with them you think you're happy/ unhappy because of the biased feelings you have towards them. the more you know them and the more you know and understand someone, the more you guys click and the more you guys find that you have in common. people often like others who share same similarities/beliefs as them, becuase as humans we want to be accepted by others. the ones who accept us we like. the ones who we dislike are the ones who we feel we don't understand us. becuase we don't spend enough time with them and know how they are and they don't know how we are. becuase of this, the two don't click and there is an unliking bias between the two people, and because of this the person doesn't feel happy hanging out with them. so in short, the more you know someone, the more you find out about them, the more you find out them, the more things you find you two have in common, which leads to acceptance and then ultimately happiness.
this can be applied with objects and everything else in the world. just think of all the things that make you upset, chances are you don't understand them, and if you do you don't know exactly why things are the way they are. when you understand why things are the way they after spending time to undferstand them,chances are you may understand them thoroughly. then after understanding them , the cycle i mentioned above kicks in. think of all the things you like, what makes you like them? becuase you understand them. you know what to do with them.
so happiness is achieved through ourselves in a process of understanding and interacting with other people/objects. people often are depressed becuase they are confused and frustrated and don't understand why things are happeining to them. but once there problems are solved, they can achieve happiness after understanding how to deal with their the situations and why the things happened.
so you have the power to make yourself happy. =)
2007-09-27 06:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by sean h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Happiness comes in brief moments: Ice cream, a puppy, an orgasm, getting off work, etc.
You would probably be insane if you felt happy all the time.
Right now I'm pretty happy because my Chinese lunch was excellent.
2007-09-27 05:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by DannyK 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kinda happy. unhappy because of all the projects i have coming up, happy that its almost the weekend
2007-09-27 11:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by RavensRule97 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am very happy.
I have a good & fulfulling life. I am blessed with the love of my bf, my family, and my friends. I am healthy. I have a good job, a nice home, and several passions in life that I indulge in. Oh yeah, and my 3 dogs and 7 barn cats!!
2007-09-27 05:55:22 · answer #11 · answered by kja63 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋