would you????

Question

would you tell your parents or anyone bout somthin that happened when you were 8 years old???( im 13 now) Well my friend told me that i need to tell them but the guy who did it to me said he woul kill me if i told any one!!!!!!!! What would you do?????????????

Pleas only serious answers and no critisising my spelling!!!!!

Answer 1

first of all what did he do to you? and second does this guy come around you? and Third Tell your parents!! that punk is not going to do anything to you TRUST ME

Answer 2

I'm so sorry for you hon. Let me just tell you the reason I am replying is because I have been through this myself.

I was molested by my father from the age of six. I was afraid to tell anyone not only because I blamed myself but for the fact that he was my dad. I kept it inside for 5 years. It was really hard to admit to anyone but I wish I would have said something sooner. I now know that my dad did the same thing to all my sisters (there are 6 of us), including my two younger sisters. I will always hold the guilt inside that maybe if I had told someone I could have saved my sisters the pain of it all. I know it is not my fault but I will always feel a little at fault. If you let this guy think he got away with it he WILL do it again. No question in my mind. You have to get this dirty a$$hole off the street. He is probably still victimizing little girls even after all these years. Let your parents know, I know it will be hard. And remember, this is not and never will be your fault. Don't let the fear of him hurting you cause you too keep this inside. Him threatening you is just a way to keep his control over you. I wish you the best and feel free to email me if you need to talk.

Answer 3

this guy is not going to get to kill you , it was only a threat b/c he is such a coward/loser!! tell your parents or go to the police first, this happened years ago, im sure the guy thinks he has gotten away with it and since he believes he has gotten this far he thinks you will remain quiet, so use this time to go to the police especially if he is someone your family stays in close contact with. He should definetly be punished and reported, u dont think what he did was right do you? of course not, now what if he does what he did to you to another young innocent child, someone should definetly stand up to him!! i know what he did to you was unfair but if you dont say anything maybe no one will, and he could possibly go further with someone else, its not right. or fair that you had to go thru it, but now that your older, take a stand and defend yourself as well as any other younger person he may come across, stop it now!!!
Im sorry for what you went thru, but b4 something more serious has a chance of happening, go to the police asap!!!


ps: You will never regret going to the police and reporting him.
But you will definetly regret NEVER going...

Answer 4

I would tell someone as soon as possible. He will not kill you, but how many other kids has he told the same thing to. You need to stop him before he hurts another child, then you need to go get some counseling so you can handle what was done to you. Do not wait, go to someone now. If no one in the family will listen then go to the cops. I would go to them anyway, so they can stop this I don't care about your spelling, just that you will get some help and be ok. You could always use spell check if it bothers you that much.

Answer 5

I would tell your parents. This guy may threten u but u parents will protect. That is what they are ther 4. I know because I had to tell my mom something that a guy did to me. He said that he would kill me or my brothers if I told. He never got a chance to. He went to jail and wasn't alode to hurt anyone else.I know u are scared and that is ok. But u will feel better after telling your folks. I wish u all the best. My thoughts will be with u.

Answer 6

I'd tell SOMEONE, after making sure that the guy who threatened you (and he is WRONG to threaten you!) was far away and couldn't hurt you.

If you're afraid to tell your parents, then tell a school counsellor, or tell the police. But tell SOMEONE.

Don't let the guy scare you. Tell a responsible adult, and let them take care of it.

Based on your answer in another question, you DEFINITELY need to tell your parents, and the police, and the school administrators. Because if he did that to you, he's probably done it to others, and someone needs to say something and stop him.

Answer 7

Yes, I would tell. I would also tell the guidance councilor at school, although that is probably hit or miss as far as any help.

Without knowing more it is hard to tell how serious this "something" is, but when someone threatens to kill you, even in jest, it is serious. You might even tell the police at this point.

Answer 8

since u have not told what the guy did to you, i dont know what to suggest. but tell your mother alone, if she is and understand person. stop telling outsiders or friends, becos later on they might hurt u by pin pointing, for example,while u have a fight , they mihgt yel at u saying this incident... so be arful to whom u are sharing ur private matters. it is better u tel ur mother, she will advise u what to do. and next time u see that guy, be keep ur distance..

Answer 9

Tell your parents first.
If what I think you're trying not to say, did happen, then the guy is probably doing it to some other kid too. If your parents don't believe you , go tell your church minister or your teachers.

Be brave!
You have my sympathy!
Good luck!

Answer 10

Got to your parents, your priest or teacher and tell them right now. It sounds like you were malested and you need to tell someone right away. If he did it to you he is going to do it to someone else and he needs to be stoped. He has threttend you but nothing will happen to you. Tell your parents and they will protect you.