is it normal NOT to be nervous? I'm as calm as a cucumber.
2007-09-27 03:12:15 · 62 answers · asked by friskydragon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually billy S i'm not spending time on some dumb online thing, i'm stuck at work so really have nothing better to do.
2007-09-27 03:19:20 · update #1
Hee hee - wait until Saturday morning!!!
Have a terrific day - I hope the weather holds out for you.
2007-09-27 03:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I got married in August, I had spent months and months being nervous and freaked out by it. Mostly because I only knew 1/2 of the guest list due to my husbands large family and quantity of friends that I can't match having moved at least once a year since I left home. When the day finally arrived though, I was just impatient and excited, even my neighbour commented on how calm I seemed, I'd spent so long worrying with 18months planning I was really over it by then. My husband had never been nervous though, I think men generally worry less about the details, I spend hours in the week before making cookies for favours, goody bags to entertain the kids, and name tags, so I had a lot to think about that he didn't worry about. Just relax, enjoy yourself and havea fabulous day and a wonderful life!
2007-09-27 03:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are nervous not because it's a big step, or they have doubts, but because it's basically a public performance.
Your calmness shows that you are confident in your decision and looking forward to one of the best days of your life with the one you love.
Hopefully you'll be able to stay "in the moment" on your wedding day and enjoy every minute. This is one of the few times in your life when all your friends and family will be gathered in your honor and wishing you well. Congratulations and best wishes!
2007-09-27 03:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by slishou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I wasn't at all nervous. I knew we were meant to be together, I just had the BIGGEST smile ever! Been married almost 6 years now, 2 kids and 2 dogs... All I can say is cherish the laughter and when you hit a valley, look on the horizon, you'll see a way out. Marriage is work, hard work. But, you have days of hard work and loads of days where its just a breeze. Enjoy one another and enjoy starting your life together on Sat.!! Congrats to the both of you, I wish you all the happiness that your lives can hold!!
2007-09-27 03:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations - welcome to the married club. Of course you are as cool as a cucumber now but come Saturday morning things will be different!
I wish you and your future wife all the very best in life, share the good & bad times and always make time for each other.
2007-09-27 04:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations sweetheart! It is perfectly normal not to be nervous, because it tells me that you have made a sound decision and are at peace with it. Most people are not that mature or sure of themselves to be able to enjoy it, but you have nothing to worry about. Almost 18 years ago I felt absolutely the same way, and we are still happy together. Best wishes.
2007-09-27 03:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is sweetie. Maybe you'll get nervous later, maybe not. I hope not. You don't want to turn up to the church rather drunk after having some dutch courage! I guess you made the right choice in partner then, look at it that way. The more you dwell on it the bigger chance you have of getting the jitters.
I'll be crossing my fingers for you and your other half and I hope you have the best day - EVER :)
2007-09-27 03:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was perfectly calm when I got married... Everything that could go wrong did and I realized that 1. I'd paid for everything already and 2. it couldn't get any worse .... Everyone told me I was so calm they couldn't believe how laid back I was .... But I knew I'd made the right choice so what was there to be nervous about
2007-09-27 03:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rhyannonn C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! You clearly know it's the right thing for you so aren't scared. I bet you will be nervous on Saturday morning though!
My friend said the same thing when she got married... I asked her a couple of days before the wedding whether she was nervous and she said no, but on the actual morning, she certainly was!
2007-09-27 03:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I've been happily married for a year now and I was "calm as a cucumber" as well! I had no doubts that I wanted to commit fully to the man I love! Congrats!!!
2007-09-27 03:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Rossy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people say it is bad others don't. well i prefer it is normal. It is just a marriage and i know it is a lifetime thing but marriage is a standard process. There are no exact reasons to be nervous except exited since you are about to live with your loved one. So chill up, it's okay not to be nervous.
2007-09-27 03:18:12 · answer #11 · answered by Warrenton 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋