Me and my boy friend broke up in mid june 07...we only dated for like 2 months but i miss him so much. we broke up in june and im still thinkin about him and i dont wanna be with no one but him i dont know what to do because my dad made us break up because of sneaking out to see him and coming to school tardy and because my dad found out he was smokin weed..even though he did that he was a very nice kid and never wanted to hurt anyone. it wouldnt be like that if he wasnt so strict. i never thought i would be that attched to any guy but once he was gone it left me kinda depressed. but i turn 18 in 10 months that seems like a long time but i hope it goes fast because i wanna be with him..i loved everything about him even the faws..my dad thinks that i dont know what i want or need but i do....idk wat to do because its so hard to talk to my dad because you cant talk to him with out him yellin at you even if it doesnt seem big.
please help tell me what ya think!!!!!
2007-09-27 02:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by smallz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well first off there is nothing wrong with a lil weed, and second, If you really care about this guy like you say you do then i can't see whats stoping you from doing what you want anyway. With that in mind, think about how much he really did mean to you and maybe you just miss him because of the relationship you two shared more so then the fact that it was him you were sharing it with.
2007-09-27 02:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself this: Would I want this guy so bad if my dad wasn't soo against it?? I think the smoking pot is just a doorway to harder drug's and you shouldn't envolve yourself with illegal drug's because if you are with him ,and not smoking you will still be arrested ,I understand your dad's concerns, and what if you snuck out one night and got killed and they had to wake your dad up in the middle of the night saying you were dead and he tought you were in bed? Sounds like you have a good dad and you should feel lucky that he loves you so much honey he is only doing his job and it's a hard one , if you can put yourself in his shoes one day I think you will thank him!
2007-09-27 02:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to prove to your father that you are responsible and can make your own decisions. Smoking weed, sneaking out and going to school late is not a good way of doing that.
2007-09-27 02:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your dad is looking out for you I suggest that you read some of the horror stories on he where kids miss their parents cause they dont love them...the guy is a jerk and if he is smoking weed that means that he is breaking the law..that will end you ebd jail wether you smoke or not if there is a raid on the house and you are ther you are going to kail..listen to you dad for once and there will be others
2007-09-27 02:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of these days, probably many years ahead, you will understand why your dad made you break up.
Stay away from drugs.
...And don't have your dad go to your own funeral.
You can and will find another guy.
And live to make your dad happy.
He loves you - cares- and protects.
2007-09-27 02:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mike D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋