im am being bullied and i am 14. my mum has gone in time ater time. this has worked but only for a few days.?

Question

And it is the smae people day after day what sjould i do

Answer 1

Osgarherbert, this bullying situation is serious, and you must keep telling anyone you can find that this abuse is hurting you. I know it's hurting you because I went through the same thing in my 10th year. It still makes my blood boil to remember what I went through, with little help from anyone to stop it. Now, as an adult, I realize that I should have refused to go to school anymore unless someone fixed the problem. I know your Mum has made an effort, but - so far - it's NOT enough. Have a heart-to-heart talk with your Mum and let her know you're not going to take it anymore, even if you have to refuse to return to school. Osgarherbert, I'm not all that religious, but I'm going to be praying for a solution to your problem. You do it too. Maybe God will listen to both of us. You're not alone because you have a lot of people pulling for you on Answers.

Osgarherbert, tomorrow (10/01/07) is another school day. Do you plan to stay home or go to school? Has anyone helped you so far? We're all pulling for you.

Answer 2

Punch them as hard as you can in the nose.Bullies only bully those who let them.But be prepared to get punched in the nose yourself possibly.If you do this they will move on to easier prey.They won't like getting punched in the nose any more than you do.I realize that this is not the "P C" thing to do these days.Every one thinks that violence is not the answer.I'm sorry,but sometimes it's the only answer.You just have to be mature enough to know the difference.This may get you in a little trouble,and you may just have to weather the storm.But I strongly suspect that it will persuade the bully to leave you alone.I must emphasize that violence should always be a last resort and that this may get you in some trouble.It is my hope that you will always be willing to face a little trouble in the defence of yourself and those you love.I wish you well and pray this situation works out for you.

Answer 3

hello. i am sorry you are being bullied and that the school denies there is bullying AGAIN .i dont usually advise fighting but you need to give the ringleader a damn good hiding ,take him/her out and the rest will back off.if this is not possible then you have to try to avoid being anywhere near these people so they cant bully you or try to ignore them if they are vocally bullying if they are hitting you then your mum is going to have to either contact the teaching association and report the fact to them that she has been in several times about the bullying and the head master/mistress wont do anything to stop it ,or go to the police if you know the names of the bullies and get them to sort it out .i just wish schools had more power to do things these days we have become a country full of do gooders no cane ..no discipline .unfortunately it is the weaker kids that suffer .i hope this misery stops soon hunni xx

Answer 4

Right , first you should tell home and school the situation. If they don't take more radical action i.e. suspend the bullies and you still being bullied then you are going to have to retaliate. I have been there and my good ole grandad taught me a trick punch, as a girl to punch the traditional way hurts like hell. Try the bottom part of your hand still clenched as a fist (little finger side) to the nose, v v pain full for them, not so bad for you. Good luck and keep talking to your parents

Answer 5

In Ireland,
If a problem such as bullying is not treated as serious as it should we complain to the
BOM which is the Board of Management
It is the council set up to deal with problems in school and works alongeside the
Department of Education and Science
and so we complain to the highest person to complain to which is the minister for education and science,

I am guessing you live in England so you will need to seek advice from the department of Education in England and most of all complai that your school is not taking the right action to this situation

Answer 6

Wow...what has happened to America today. How times have changed. Im only 22 I have seen the huge generation gap.

If your being BULLIED. Stand up for yourself, becasue they pick on the weak ones. The next time this bullying happens, punch the kid square in his jaw, and if he goes down, hit him a few more times. break his nose. Dont put up with **** from someone. You dont need mom to do your business, take care of it yourself. Back when your dad was in school thaths how things were taken care of, lets get that back.

Show him you mean business

Answer 7

You mum needs to go back into the school and insist this stops or she will take you out of school, until something is done about it, I don't condone violence, so don't go down that road it sometimes makes things worse. Whilst you are on the school grounds it is the schools responsibility to look after it's pupils if it failing to do this your mum should either go to the LEA or even the POLICE.

Answer 8

14 is pretty young.. however, you know how to prepare your own meals and clean and handle sharp objects and whatnot, unlike a child, so it's safe for you to be home alone. Now, if you're going to bring a boy over... Big negative on that. You're still very young. Enough said.

Answer 9

Your mum needs to put it in writing, including the fact that she's been in to your school x no. of times. A copy of the letter needs to be sent to the LEA and while you're at it, send a copy to the Department for Schools, Children and Families. In that letter your mum could state that until procedures are put in place to ensure your protection, that you will not be attending school. Keep a diary, recording everything that happens. Get the local TV/radio involved if necessary. Don't keep quiet!!

Answer 10

First of all, don't do something drastic like bring a weapon to school.
Next, What kind of bullying?
If it is physical violence (ie they actually punch you to the point of bruising or bleeding), have them arrested for assault

If it is verbal/psych, sadly you are going to have to take it. It comes with growing up.
A few options are to actually start dishing it back to them (insults, comments, jokes).
Or you can start to make yourself seem so 'pathetic' that them insulting you would be a waste of time.

You can also try working out. A person is picking on you for status since they percieve you as weaker. If after a few months you look like you could stand up to them, they might back down. (It's not worth it to fight someone day after day when they can get just as hurt. OR worse, they actually LOSE to you in a fight.)