As a 55yr old man I am a little too old to go after young women in their 20's and I find women in their 40's to be generally ghastly so I date women in their 30's.
Problem is they all want to get married. As the owner of a private mental health practice in Minnesota they seem to view me as an excellent prospect for marriage. But I've never been married considering I could just find a woman I don't like and just give her a house, negating the whole purpose of marriage, so it's not on the table. Nevertheless they don't seem to accept that when I dump them when their complaining that I haven't married them yet becomes too much to bear and go ballistic about it. I've even had to take to concealing video cameras in my bedroom and breaking up with them in a car park which has video surveillance because they occasionally file assault or rape charges. I make a tidy sum from suing for false allegations but I digress.
Can't they just accept that the purpose of marriage means I won't marry?
2007-09-27 01:10:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Ey!!! Grandpa's still pimpin it!
Haha good one pops. leave some for us.
2007-09-27 01:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
You are the perfect example of how NOT to treat a woman! You obviously don't respect yourself....or women, for that matter. You are completely selfish in all manners of the word. If I were you, I would be completely ashamed. No one in their right mind should ever treat anyone as you do these women. If the women really knew what kind of low-life person you were, no matter what your professionall position is, they would never even give you the time of day. You probably never had a great example when you were growing up how men should treat women. Your in the mental heath profession, you are supposed to be helping people like these women, that you throw away like toilet paper you just used to wipe your a$$. You should just live your life alone because when you are interacting with the world, you're one big tornado looking for a life to destroy. At least if you were alone, you could be even more self-absorbed than you are right now and the only person that you would be hurting in the process is YOU! You must be sadistic or something because you thrive off of causing other people, particularly women, PAIN. That's just sick! It's men like you that are the downfall of society. I've met dogs with better relationship skills than you!
2007-09-27 03:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Boy #1 due 4/12/09! 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it is too bad women are taking so long to realize that most of the time marriage is built for men and children to succeed while the wife/mom supports them in doing so.....I am giving the marriage thing a try but my husband is 10 1/2 years my youth and hot as hell. I made sure there was some benefit for me in this marriage. It keeps me young and in enjoyable shape being married to a stud and he can keep up....yay
You should not lead the ladies on, just leave the romance out and let them know you are there to get a piece only and that is the best thing you could do for any one of them because it sounds like they don't need to be hooked up with the likes of you anyhow.
BTW.....you might look into a little mental health for yourself (of course, you wont think so).
2007-09-27 01:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by scsspace 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not once did you mention that you tell these women early on that you're not interested in getting married. Women in their 30s are on another level (possibly one of more maturity). They don't have the advantage of dating Joe, Fred, and Tom and waiting to settling down and have kids when they're damn near 60. They are thinking about their time clocks and how the longer they wait to have a family, the more difficult it is to conceive children. When they see someone of your age and status, I'm pretty sure they're hoping that you're more mature than the younger men they've dated. Someone who's not interested in using them for their bodies, but someone who, at the tender age of 55, finally wants to stop playing games or discontinue being selfish (unlike the men they've dated in their 20s and 30s) and find a wife. One that could possibly take care of them in their old age. So if it's a buddy that you want to screw all day and all night, it's easy to find that. But you need to be honest from the beginning rather than blaming it on women for giving them mixed signals.
P.S.
Where the hell are you looking that you keep finding ghastly 40 year olds? Perhaps those are the ones you attract? Or are they ghastly to you because they're on to every trick you have under your sleeves?
2007-09-27 02:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
enable me inform you what i did. i grow to be 29 and he or she grow to be 32. She had a extensive chest and grow to be tall with long black hair. She instructed me that i grow to be so huge that she very almost ought to not take it. Our intercourse grow to be large and he or she yelled,ranted and raved fairly a lot each and every time Come to ascertain that she were with 50 adult men ! I fairly a lot left her on the spot. while human beings say that it is not significant who the female has been with earlier or it incredibly is it is none of our business enterprise have no thought how adult men are plagued with the aid of this. enable it pass my *** ! I took her an emotional curler coaster experience for 2 years earlier finally refusing to marry her. ladies beware ! If the guy does not drop you on the spot he won't cope with you an identical afterwards and specific won't dedicate to you. not that i recommend mendacity i might basically not exhibit my sexual previous in any respect. One incorrect be conscious and your long previous! maximum adult men won't marry at present no count what (pondering the extreme divorce fee and how courts cope with the adult men) so do not upload extra gasoline to the hearth !
2016-10-20 03:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering if this is real scenario. I really find it very hard to believe that someone so pompous and callous really exists. If you were a successful as you say then you are why are you on Yahoo Answers, aren't you busy getting laid?
It also sounds like the choice of woman that you pick aren't all that right in their heads.... seems they need the "conquest" as much as you do.
Did you lay your cards out on the table clearly in the beginning? or are you afraid that if you told the truth at the start they wouldn't go to bed with you?
The fact that you have never been married or serious in a relationship speaks loudly that you are truly lacking in your emotional well being and state of mind. You sound hollow and empty, I am sorry for you. Once again if this is even a true question.....
2007-09-27 01:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberlee Ann 5 · 7⤊ 2⤋
No they can't accept it, it's wired into there brains to not just sleep with anybody. Evolution took place if in the past they just slept with anyone there'd be no father to help raise the children thus making the odds of survival of both her and the child slim, due to many a years of this by not only the human race but whatever races we've evolved from it's very unlikely to find a woman who won't want any type of commitment from you deep down.
2007-09-27 01:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by icpooreman 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because most women are decent enough not to comprehend that most men are self serving dogs in heat. We are hopeful that most men want to be cared about not just looking for strong hips. That is high school behavior. Some women are still too dazzled by looks and not swayed by a man's character or the pattern of his past behavior. Have a daughter some day who you want treated well by a man and maybe you will learn the connection between love and sex.
2007-09-27 01:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
your hunting the wrong types of women,,it's not that all women want to get married , your just attracted to the type because you fear giving someone else control of something,,you,, and i would say you get some kind of pleasure out of it when you break it off,,so much that you have come to the point off hiding camera's in the bedroom,,, why choose the bedroom to break it off,,did ya ummhumm her and then break up ,,if so no wonder they've gone ballistic,, do you tell them up front that all your intrested in is someone to spend time with? your not looking for a commitment right now in this stage of your life? there are women who just want fun relationships too ya know ,,
2007-09-27 01:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by mytic0420 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you men that is all you want so what maybe us women is tired of being used abused and confused and that is why we have mental problems, i was married 24 years no thanks , i dont ever want to get married again. i would rather be poor and starve, cause after 24 years of being a personnal maid and then there are no benefits till one gets 62 . so what do women do now eh? anyway mine died and i had bills to pay,and guess who paid them? i can accept why you wont marry why buy the cow when you can get it free, so im forty and im ghastly too smart to fall for men like you, how that for morning review, lol.the same reason men cant grasp us women who dont want to sleep with men who date younger women so they can take advantage of them cause they dont know better, just a lil input,
2007-09-27 01:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by freeflow 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Um....why don't you just date women your own age? Then it won't be an issue. The 30s are when most women are looking to settle down, so going after 30somethings is a bad idea unless you WANT to get married. It's just going to keep happening.
2007-09-27 02:33:28 · answer #11 · answered by G 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋