Are first impressions important to you.....?

Question

What do you look for when trying to form a friendship or relationship .....?

Answer 1

**No...not important at all ....
yeah...i know...
it's said that "the first impression is the last impression"
but ... that doesn't work for me all the time...
coz ...
sometimes -if not most of the time-,
my first impression is the wrong impression

***when i'm trying to form a friendship ...
i look for the person's morals , honesty and feeling at ease while dealing with them....
coz i really don't feel at ease with anyone easily.....
but once i love them ... i love them deeply

Answer 2

I believe first impressions are everything. You don't necessarily have to look your best, but if you are being fake people will find out eventually and not like you anymore, be yourself. Not many people I've ever met or gone out with changed and not be the person who I thought they were. They were themselves. No, 3rd and 4th impressions aren't as good as the first, but they do still count in my opinion. I was very shy but people loved to be around me, I'm not shy anymore either! First impressions mean everything to people. What if your going to a job interview??? And you end up looking like a slob? They won't want to hire you on that. Think about more tings than relationship status and what-not. Other things you may do also have to have very good first impressions. Hope this helped!

Answer 3

Yes, they are, and almost always, that first impressions are correct.
In spite of that, I never close a door to know any person better.
About what I look....well....only for a good person.
If he/she is a good person, the rest will come by itself. I never condicioned a friendship. I dont care about the religion, the race, the social possition, or even the education. What is inside a person's heart is much more important than all that.

Answer 4

I used to think that first impressions were important, but I once met some one for the first time and they blew me off. I ran into that person a short time later in a different setting and they told me that they blew me off because their first impression of me wasn't so good but this time was different. I told them that I was nervous. So from now on, I give people a second chance.

Answer 5

First impressions are important, for a first time meetings. This is what attracts you to the other person.
After that I have no expectations. I am open to all input. Each person is an individual, so to expect anything is asking too much. You need to take people, from when you met them, not before you met them.
Talk is cheap.

Answer 6

Yes, first impressions are important to me, but I do try to remember that that is all that they are...FIRST impressions...
All too often I have been wrong about someone when my view was based on the first impression...but then again...there are plenty of people who live up to the bad impression I got of them on the initial meeting.

Answer 7

Yes first impressions are important to me,and that is a clean mind!!

Answer 8

no, first impressions are not important to me...WHen i'm trying to form a friendship, I look for someone compatible to me, don't how s/he looks like or acts like or where s/he comes from.

Answer 9

I look for a nice friendly person , who has some of the same interests as me, not all the same interests that is not possible, but genuinely a good soul. First impressions never show me whats down deep inside a person. Cheers !

Answer 10

i dont go by first impressions anymore, i always get it wrong

a few times ive met people and thought i didnt like them, but after a while ended up forming a great freindship
and other times ive immediately made a connection and after a while i realise they are a bitchh

but i do enjoy meeting someone, and clicking straight away, then staying great freinds, its rare but ive got 5 freinds who mean so much to me and have for years through good and bad times in our lives we are there for eachother, xxxxxxxxxx