but most of my married life i beleive my hubby as been cheatin on me, with woman round corner from me, they wave and that but tells me he dont no her, how can i tell if there is owt between them
2007-09-26 23:22:45 · 16 answers · asked by trartswarts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hes obviously cheating, because he waves and everything.
2007-09-26 23:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by TruthBeTold 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would approach the woman in quesion and ask her politely how she knows your hubby, it could be that they are being polite and waving as the pass each other, or she could give you an explanation that your hubby isnt prepared to give you. I wouldnt say that purely waving at each other in the street means they are cheating behind your back, maybe you could investigate further before asking direct questions about cheating? Have you any other reason to think that your hubby is cheating, or espcially with this specfic woman? Good luck.
2007-09-27 06:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Twarts.
Do not bother yourself too much thinking about if your husband is cheating on you. Why do you have to make your own 'ghost' and later you will be afraid.
Do you prove something that he's dating somebody else?
Trust your husband. For as long as you don't see him 'on top' with a lady, don't ever accuse him of something he did not do. The more he will be furios and tend to do that. Don't give him idea. Man are rebellious. The more you will nag him with that, the more he will prove it to you.
Ignore your husband's smiling, waving, talking, etc, to any ladies, maybe he is just friendly by nature and besides he is your husband anyway and they cannot take him from you.
2007-09-27 06:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by always confuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch was going on keep a close eye but dont be to obvious. Have you ever thought of becoming friends with the women in question. You may get on with her and find out that shes just a friendly soul. On the other hand talk to her tell her u and ur hubby have a fantastic sex life your never out of the sac and watch her reaction. then if your hubby meets her hell get an earful and come home in a foul mood!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-27 06:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hayley R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't know her. It is just a neighbourly gesture to wave or say hello to people that you often see in your neighbourhood. I say hello to the man down at the corner from me. But I aren't sleeping with him!! You married because you love each other-presumably. And with that love there needs to be a little trust. Without trust you are leaving your mind to do a whole lot of wandering and worrying. I think he is just being friendly. Trust him until he does something to jeopardise that trust-then question his trust.
2007-09-27 06:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Forgetmenotshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You between a rock and a hard place.
Perhaps present yourself to your hubby in a more competitive way so that he doensnt have to cheat.
A man would cheat to get back at you. He cheats instead of arguing the point, so if you live together in harmony he wont cheat. You have to build a home and lifestyle to be proud of, worth keeping.
Good luck
2007-09-27 06:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by chezzrob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound insecure sweety. just because they wave it doesnt mean he knows her. i wave at my neighbours but i wouldnt dream of sleeping with them. i dont evenknow their names!
sit down with ur hubby and tell him your fears. i'm sure he will understand. maybe he needs to give u a bit more attention. i been with my bloke 2years and i am already gettin less and less attention. but i talk it through with him everytime i feel sad.
communication is the key to a successful relationship. i'm sur ehe isn't cheating on u hun. how have u lasted 5 years of thinking he has cheated??? have u ever actually asked him?
dont interrogate him though as its quite likely he is innocent.
remember why ur together. he married u for a reason chick.
good luck babe and let me know how it goes!!
Tinks xoxox
2007-09-27 06:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by *T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step, communication, talk to him. Ask him about this, you are his wife, and confront him about this. You are his wife, you have every right to know.
Ask your husband, and ask them, but go to the source, if he gets defensive, then you know, if he does not get defensive, and tells you the truth, then believe him.
Do not believe what other people say, if you do you will be miserable your whole married life, go to the source and ask him.
2007-09-27 06:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the case, my ex was sleeping with every man, woman, and child in our neighborhood. He waved to everyone, and did not know any of their names!!
Anyway, the way to know, is if he treats you differently when he is around her. Check the phone records, his cell phone, and show up at home unexpectedly sometimes.
2007-09-27 06:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must be pretty insecure if you think by his waving at someone he is having an affair. If there is firm evidence, then you should confront him, but until then you will just have to put it down to him being friendly.
2007-09-27 06:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just work out when he gets the time to do this and follow him or whats good for one is good for you and come round to my place and we can fuk allnite wiht a few breaks lol
2007-09-27 06:31:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋