hey im a 15 year old girl i am quite short 4 my age im about 5 ft 1 and i weight about 9 and a half stone...i am very uncomfortable bout this i have size dd boobs but there s strecth marks on them and i dont no how to make them go...i am also a virgin and am feeling rather upst because im scraed incase no1 will every wantto go out with me or do anything with me please help me x
2007-09-26 23:15:57 · 17 answers · asked by lucy l 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You need to talk to someone, i.e nurse at the surgery, school, who can put your mind at ease. By bottling things up you are worrying more than necessary. Don't keep the fears to yourself, doctors, nurses are there to help.
2007-09-26 23:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
How could I criticise someone who is going through exactly the same things that I went through at 15? I fully understand your dilemmas. I am now 30 but still only 5ft tall, so at least you've got 1 inch on me!! I also had DD boobs and at that point they were the bane of my life - I hated them with a passion and boys wouldn't come near me - they just wanted to stare!! Let me just say that although it definitely won't seem like it now, things will get better. You will grow into your boobs as you get older - by the time I hit 18 my boobs were my best asset. Don't be in a hurry to grab the nearest bloke or lose your virginity though - no matter what your friends tell you, they ARE making it sound better than it is!!! Take your time with the opposite sex and find out who you are first before you give parts of yourself away. And it's not just about boobs for men - someone who is worthy of you will love the whole of you - not just your most obvious feature. Try not to be upset about they way you are feeling right now, although I do remember how hard it is being 15 and having the biggest boobs in the world. As for your stretch marks, the best thing is Palmers Cocoa Butter. It's around £5 for a bottle and I would recommend the unscented one. Not only does it help with stretch marks, it will make your boobs lovely and soft!! Also, try swimming - great for the upper body and arms which may help to lift your boobs a bit. And not forgetting the good old bra - get a proper fitting at a lingerie shop and try different styles to suit your shape. You'd be surprised what a good bra will do - lifting and separating is the key. Just you wait - in a few years you will have grown into yourself and you'll find a fantastic guy who appreciates you and your boobs. E-mail me if you like and you go girl!!!!!
2007-09-28 08:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not dream of criticising you because you are upset and worried about things.
First of all we women develope at different rates and you still have three or more years growing height to come.
Normal to have stretch marks all my daughters dd and when I took them to be measured properly for a fitted bra one was ff but smaller in inches. Since having the correct fitted bra she feels a lot more comfy, looks better and stands taller.
Why would you think that no one would want to go out with you because of the above and being a virgin trust an older women MOST good guys would love everything you have to offer. You are no over weight, you have a great figure and if you get yourself a proper fitted bra that will make you feel more comfy, look great and add inches in appearance to height.
Be proud of all your wonderful assets my friend you would be the envy of many a model and your friends, many pay thousands for what you have.
2007-09-27 00:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost every girl is selfcouncious,I have never met a girl who isn't uncomfortable about atleast 1 part of their body if not more.Guys don't really care all that much about streach marks,or how short you are.Sure people might make fun of you because of your height but who cares?What is the point of someones height anyways?
I have many body issues like my thighs are too big,or my stomach too flabby and other stuff like that.I'm only 5ft2 and I get made fun of all the time because of it,and it used to bother me but now I don't really care.I have size d boobs but have streach marks all over them,not to mention all over my hips and thighs as well.I have had some boyfriends over the past few years and sure some of them were jerks,but most of them didn't care about my streach marks,or my flabbyness.They liked me for who I was and my personality.
The best advice I can give you is that guys love confidence.Sure you don't feel very confident about your body,but what about your personality,or your attitude.Try to wear a really cool outfit that you absolutely adore and love and that you feel looks good on you(an outfit like that can be hard to come by at times but you will eventually find it)and focus on the outfit and not on your body.Eventually you will become confident in your own skin,it just takes time
If you ever want or need to talk or anything you can always IM me on yahoo(the adress is in my profile)
2007-09-27 00:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by CountlessLies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I have stretch marks on my boobs as they grew a lot in a short ime when I was younger. My boyfriend isn't bothered at all by this as I also have stretch marks on my hips.Try Bio Oil as this will help with the markings if you very uncomfortable with them. Hope this helps. Don't worry about being a vurgin, you only 15, they will be loads of boys that will want to go out with you.
2007-09-26 23:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are ready to actually be in a relationship. If your not sure on whether or not you actually like him, then your probably just setting yourself up for disaster based on what you have told me about your past. Do you want to hurt more people? Do you want to play with peoples emotions? If you don't want to do any of these things, then I suggest you just take yourself out of the dating world for now. This is most likely not what you want to hear, but it's the truth and it's coming from someone who has had a lot of experience and a lot of experience giving advice to others. If you get jealous that other guys may like other girls then this just adds on to the fact that your not ready for the dating world. You'll most likely end up with a broken heart if you keep going into the direction your heading towards now. Just think. If someone lead you on and played with your own emotions. Would you feel good? Would you not feel cheated? These are all human beings. And they deserve more then being a game. I am not saying you are a bad person. I am just saying that you have made some mistakes. We ALL make mistakes. The good people are the people who take these mistakes and fix them. I think your a good person. Best of wishes! -Jennifer
2016-05-19 22:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lucy, I'm a guy but remember how krap it was being a young teen.
Theres nothing wrong with being a virgin at 15! I was. And its a good thing, you have LOTS of time, and dont worry guys will want to be with you that I can guarantee.
Also you're at an age where you're growing and will gain more height and realise you are a beautiful human being!
I was small at your age and then I got a growth spurt and shot up! Teenage years are a time of change and they can be hard but they dont last forever so try and enjoy them, cos someday you'll wish you could be a teen again just for a day!
Feel free to email any questions if u want to chat and I'll try help u out.Hang in there!
Paul
2007-09-26 23:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry, everyone gets stretch marks, even guys! As for your chest, I know it can make you feel self-conscious, especially if your friends have smaller ones, but be proud! I'm a 34 G and have been since I was about 14, and now, at 23, I'm loving it....
You are 15, there is plenty of time for dating and guys os just enjoy being young and a nice lad will pop up sooner or later...
2007-09-26 23:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Gem Gem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was exactly the same as you at your age, im 19 now, and now im living with my bf and we are perfectly happy.
i was a little bigger than you so i cant see any reason why you might have a problem with dating etc. just be yourself cos the most important thing in this instance is to be comfortable with who you are.
believe me, bigger is better when it comes to guys, they like something to hold onto if you get me lol
dont rush anything because you only live once, you cant turn back time and take back anything that has been done so be sensible and only do what you feel ready for with the right person. your still a child so behave that way until you need to grow up. have fun and be safe!
2007-09-27 00:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls get stretch marks on there boobs when they are teenagers and the marks will disappear in time dont worry 5ft 1 isnt that short you will probably grow more anyway enjoy the fact you have a large chest and be proud dont hide it look at the amount of girls that pay to have something you got naturally look at them as a blessing not a curse !!! cheer up hope i helped
2007-09-26 23:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey, sounds like we are built the same! I have never had a problem with my height at all, I can date Tall, short, and any height in between! I have found the double D's can be a problem with immature jerks, making comments, staring, etc.I try not to wear stretch tops or low cut blouses, but come swim suit season there is just no hiding what God gave me, learn to love and appreciate what you are and how you look, stretch marks are just a part of life and you will find later on in life more than 75% of women will have them somewhere on their body before they die
2007-09-30 23:00:03 · answer #11 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋