My ex-boyfriend (we dated for almost three years before he broke up with me and then I met my husband) has started talking to me again. He said he saw my husband somewhere with another woman and that he is definitely cheating on me. I know he is lying because the day he says he saw him I know he was at work (and he works about 45 miles from where he supposedly was that day). Besides that I had just given birth to our second daughter a week prior so i
know my ex is lying to me. I let him believe that I kicked out my husband to see if he would fess up but he didn't...he seems fine with the fact that his lie has destroyed my family (or so he thinks). Now he is hitting on me!! I am so mad that this jerk tried to hurt my family and I. I don't want to sink to his level and "get him back" but I do want to let him know that I know the truth and make him feel like crap for trying to hurt my girls and me. What should I do??
2007-09-26 22:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We remained on good terms and my husband knows this...he is friends with him since even before we broke up so long ago (at least he was...he's pretty pissed at him right now). And my marriage is perfectly peaceful...we love each other more than anything and we trust each other completely. We are just extremely hurt and angry that someone would try to do this to us.
2007-09-26 23:02:10 · update #1
WEll the guy is a jerk to say the least. Just ignore him and dont give him the chance to manipulate you anymore. I wouldnt confront him or anything. He will likely enjoy the negative attention anyway. Just ignore him and enjoy your family. :)
2007-09-27 03:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over for a "romantic night". Tell your husband that he's coming over and make sure your kids are nowhere near the areas the jerk might walk in to. When he tries to act horny or flirty, give your husband the signal to come out. If the jerk you invited is violent, bring some family are hire some bouncers (the kind you see in a bar). Have a camera around and make sure its within reach. Take a picture of him (surely he's gaping at his point) and keep it for memories to laugh about. The point you want him to understand (that you're married, you're happy with your hubby & kids, that your ex is an untrustworthy liar, and he needs to get a life) will then hit him in the face with a big splat!
2007-09-26 23:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Coin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell age are you people???? That's the most juvenile behaviour I've heard of in quite some time.........Firstly, stop talking to the guy...he's an immature jerk that dropped you when it suited him, but can't handle the fact that you've moved on!
Secondly, stop talking to the guy ....you're married to someone else, you've got children, and you shouldn't be discussing your husband OR your marriage with an ex-boyfriend..
The man obviously likes playing mind games...You seem to be playing a few too......Tread lightly, because your husband may not appreciate the game your playing!
Be the mature one in this saga.......cut ties, and get on with your life with your spouse and children.
2007-09-26 23:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by cautious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your beautiful husband to hadle the situation....or thank your ex for pointing out the fact that he still thinks you are ace but your husband knows you are ace....good-bye
2007-09-26 22:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by glenda p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking with him all together no more period. You are setting yourself up because he is trying to get with you and if you allow him to work his evilness he might catch you at some weak moments and progress toward his goal so if you really don't want anything to do with him then do not talk to him at all.
2007-09-26 23:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you don't like him then only overlook about him and do not pass out with him, this is in all probability he replaced into mendacity even as he reported he replaced into only making you jealous, why might want to he pass out with a woman for 2 years, only to make you jealous! i'd only attempt to reduce him out of your existence and flow on and characteristic thrilling in college. sturdy success x
2016-10-20 03:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE and don't talk to him anymore if you want your married life to be peaceful
2007-09-26 22:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your married why are you talking to your ex in the 1st place
2007-09-26 22:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by meanmuggin (the original) ███ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the @#$@##, and quit playing high school games!!!!!!!!
2007-09-26 22:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋