Also for women who have denied access to the father to his children. What would you tell your son that had this happen to him, and how would you comfort him, if infact you did it to his father
2007-09-26
21:04:29
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Ashleigh
That is the worst feminist fob off I have ever seen. You could not have tried any less.
2007-09-26
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No it means mothers hate their sons for someones son having to resort to stealing the children to be a part of their life.
2007-09-26
22:31:16 ·
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It boils down to everyone being responsible for their own behavior and nothing more despite lip service and false documentation. Truth is truth period as many put spins on it so they don't have to look at it and that includes assumers. Nobody is exempt from consequences unless they are an infant....a baby in the true sense of the word. I'm not referencing childish behavior I'm referring to a newborn ....newborns are exempt from their behavior. As for those that are in the business of leading people to believe they are adult infants who's to blame for that...don't stick your hand in the fire and you won't get burned while going thru trials where you may just need to sort before you thwart. How many people seek sympathy and help from liars? How many people marry them and not realize until it's too late? The bottom line is it all comes out in the wash some day and people will repent/change ONLY what they are responsible for and nothing more...aka the lies and false beliefs of another. As for those who are dishonest...only if they decide to grow up and that goes for sons and daughters who choose to play games as well. We are all people who are responsible for our good and our bad behavior ...seek outside the box.
If an infant pulls hair it's not being done on purpose. Beyond that those who lie (as one example) do so on purpose as everyone has choice to be truthful also. It is not something they believe it is contemplated to get one's way - don't be manipulative or so easily fooled... that behavior is not limited to marital status it's limited to chosen behavior. People who commit dishonesty believe more so in the outcome and ability to contol than anything. Nobody has the power to cover up truth altho the courts, for example, "feel" they do and so cashes in on the liar...hey, what comes around goes around. Then you have the liar that feeds the court or whomever...MH, churches, their family let the drama begin unless you choose to make changes that work. If you haven't figured it out yet no negative behavior is gender specific. When was the last time anyone heard "____ did something good because they are a man or a women"? Nobody can *honestly* say that someone is choosing wrong due to their gender either. That is and would be false if and when pulled by choice aka manipulative or a point blank lie. There is such a thing as gender haters but that is wrong and natural consequences surface on their own so proof that is wrong.
Yes, family law hates truth...it isn't gender specific either. When considering family law it is made up of people. Their are even churches out their that hate truth and MH thwarts it as well so advertise truth while encouraging to love self and hate others via programming to get nothing out of it except money. Hating truth causes consequences...it always has. What is anti-family - it has nothing to do with divorce as a couple splitting does not cause family breakdown in relationships - people do. Sons and daughters will always be sons and daughters and sons and daughter will always have parents - all people. All the rest is a waste of sulking that is big money to many businesses...it's a wonder the economy is so messed up. Perhaps people should start making an honest living. Any business or people that sells the sulking agenda via manipulation exposes itself - that is what breaking up this world.
What makes up a business - people do. Is not government a business we hire to quote make sure our country runs smoothly. Well, if a country or state is in the news often that is questionable. Although dishonest businesses sort thru it's employees and those who join until they come up with folks that will do anything to make a living or spend their life living for purpose of destroying people...dishonest as it may be for the same reason people live their life for cults of every shape and form. They too are seeing the outcome but have lied to themselves for so long their spirits are tainted...most of which starts way before a person gets married, gets a job, becomes a parents etc. Oh, well that's all that belief that they had or have power when they have to lie on paper or go about covering up truth...such as CPS to prove something that doesn't even exist, a lawyer, a government or someone trying to keep any state paid case...(cough) I mean rule over peoples live excuse me.
Divorces take place for a positive reason in many cases and is really nobodies guess but the truth that exists between the couple. Not to include the flavor-of-the-month club which is advertised and not my judgement it's because they sell this openly - don't shoot the observer. As for those who twist, look to thwart, or transfer choice in behavior or reasons concerning family or marriage onto another forget it...you are wasting your breath and in many cases tax dollars and life or lives of others in general. People lives do not have to revolve around those who do not live in the truth.
Pitting parents who are also people has always had a concequence to it and ice will mealt in he..double hockey sticks before those consequences stop. Many people are spoiled in this manner. How many businesses do this as well? Whether the bahavior stops and people grow up that is choice. But don't hold your breath as money is involved so live in the truth and love the truth even if divorce has occurred or not. The key issue is to live in the truth and accept what is our business and what is not when it comes to relationships. Like many do these days avoid the courts and the cults. Let the flavor-of-the-month club please those people and pay their paychecks. As for the many you have mentioned in the short question you asked...like I said try and seek outside the box and grow forward.
2007-09-27 00:43:25
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Oh my dear, it all depends on the culture and country the mother, father and son belongs to. An Indian cannot think of calling the helpline if the dad beat him with a cane, but in US the school teacher gives the telephone number to the son. So you need to think of even fundamental relationships in the context of the country and culture.
2007-09-26 21:23:25
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Tusker is 100% wrong if anyone beats someone there are the police you can call. He is wrong. Anyways, it all depends on the culture and the law out there. Most kids are not bothered.
2007-09-26 23:50:50
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answered by Anonymous
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I saw a documentary a few weeks ago about men that ran off with their kids and hid out from the mother even though they had been given liberal visitation. Does that mean men hate their daughters? Quit stereotyping women. Barring abuse, I believe in joint custody. Edit////////////// That's not true. As I said, the fathers had liberal visitation. What you seem to be saying is, if a man does it, there is always some "justification" if a woman does it, she' evil.
2007-09-26 22:09:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Well for starters that's one thing I would never do and have never done. see my ex was a horrible husband, still, we had a son, and well as it goes, he's the dad and that is all she wrote.
2007-09-26 23:18:19
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answered by Anonymous
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You have such a lovely way of asking a totally unbiased question.
Simple answer for You is that I would tell "Them" all to go and work it out for Themselves rather than to politicize "Their" personal grudges.
2007-09-26 22:08:24
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answered by Ashleigh 7
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