This guy that is interested in me does coke sometimes. Not sure how I feel about it...I don't know much about the drug except that a lot of people I know that have done it got really skinny. Your thoughts?
2007-09-26 19:48:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes...if they don't share.
2007-09-26 19:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 3⤊ 5⤋
for you to be dating this guy i think not. Don't date him cause eventually you will become a user. Maybe not by choice, he or friends of his could put some in your drink and these people when they are on a high cannot be trusted. Drug users usually have other drug user friends so be careful.
Tell him you can only have him as a friend and by being a friend to him you can have a positive influence in his life. Take your time with him, let him trust you enough for you to take him to a centre to be treated. Drug dealers and users are very hard to trust people so let him learn and grow to trust you.
Don't let him convert you to his side, honey you do the converting. But for now all he needs is a friend he might not admit it, but just be that for now. He could use a few of those. A true friend. Good luck.
2007-09-27 15:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem if people experiment with drugs, but not my significant other. I wouldn't be able to be with someone who is on it. It's a horribly addictive drug and it's expensive as hell. I would say keep looking because that's not the guy for you.
2007-09-27 02:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will say stay away. But really if it is just casual use, and he knows that you aren't very comfortable around it, so he keeps it way on the down low, I wouldn't worry to much about it.
If he comes to see you and he's high all the time, then you got a problem.
2007-09-27 02:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by grouch2111 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
people have done so many stupid things in their liefs. drug destroys everything, first of your being, then your family, and friends.
drug is bad news, no one does a little drug either they are on it but it does not show it yet.
if by now nothing is serious between you 2 it is best not to continue the friendship. just stop it.
2007-09-27 16:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by not fair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me coke is a deal breaker. have a cousin that is on the waggon right now but when hes not hes in a very bad place. an ex gf is hooked on crack cocaine and is in a terrible state. at this point in my life weed would be a deal breaker too. so tobacco.
as for his interest in you... you have to decide wether you are interested in him and what to do about it if you are. do you want to be around the drugs? do you want to have the potential legal problems? i suspect that you are at least a little. just be careful and don't let him pressure you into partaking.
2007-09-27 02:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by tom5251972 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't change my opinion of them, but I definitely wouldn't date them. Usually their "sometimes" use, turns into "all the time" use. That is when the real problems start. Before you know it they are lying to you & stealing from you. Best bet, like a few of the others have said, is to stay away.
2007-09-27 09:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♫brokenangel♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Blow f*cks people up. Once they start doing a few lines of coke a day it will be hard to be around other people... I would certainly not date someone who does cocaine.
2007-09-27 16:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from all drugs... see if you can get him some help, and no he isn't ready for a relationship... he needs to get himself together before he can have a good lasting relationship. Find a stable man... and help that one out if you can, but don't hook up with him!!!!!
2007-09-27 15:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by jeremeae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion changes of anyone that does drugs. I always see them as not being happy and needy or else they wouldn need drugs.
I know people claim sometimes that they do it for 'fun' but I think if you need to take something to have fun than you really have problems.
If someone is on drugs you never can really know who they are and to me its not worth the time trying to get to know them..... they usually arnt worth knowing
2007-09-27 02:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My thoughts and my advice to you would be to steer clear of someone involved in illegal drugs or activities. Trust me, just because you aren't actually doing it, doesn't mean you can't get in trouble for associating with them. Trust me, you don't want to find out the hard way. Just keep on going.
2007-09-27 02:52:47 · answer #11 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋