2007-09-26 19:29:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it's bad. Who cares if he doesn't love his wife. He doesn't love you either...he's your EX...and chances are he is probably using you because he knows you are still hooked.
2007-09-26 19:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by joellemoe 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you already know the answer to your own question, but you are asking anyway--in the vain hope that someone will tell you it's OK. Maybe someone here will tell you it's OK to have a "relationship" (call a spade a spade--it's an affair) with a married guy, but I'm not going to be the one to say that.
I do not say it, by the way, for moral or religious reasons--even though adultery offends both my morals and my religion. Just from the point of view of practicial common sense. Either he will break your heart, or you will break his. His wife will get hurt--and she doesn't deserve that. If he has kids, that's all the more reason to park your feelings and leave him be.
2007-09-27 03:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! This is bad, very bad!! I am sure you love it when he sweet talks you and tells you that married life is not so good....One the other hand he is at home with his wife playing the husband role in the marriage.
DON'T waste your time and get involved with him. Wife's will go crazy when they know there man has been out catting around with another woman...
I have exp at this and it's not worth hurting a friendship that you still have with him or further more, getting yourself hurt, wife's will get angry and find out who you are sooner or later.
Move on and be strong, you will find the right person, not Mr. Right for Right Now!!
Good Luck Girl
2007-09-27 02:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by blondieoftexas 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's terrible. Stay away from a married man no matter what he says about his miserable marriage. If he was that miserable he wouldn't still be married now would he? If he wasn't so busy coming up with sob stories and trying to cheat, he might be able to repair his marriage. Don't be a part of ruining a home.
2007-09-27 04:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the go-to girl. You are the one he goes to when he and his wife don't get along, and he goes right back home. You are just an easy access girl, a booty call, a sucker. You need to move on and find a man with real priorities, because he sounds like a douchebag
2007-09-27 02:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by yomama23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every man has its lame excuse to his philandering feat. Always blaming the other person but not him. I believed there is responsibility to every action you committed. For me, it is worse to insist in a situation where you know for a fact is wrong. Your answer is based on how you perceived yourself. Is it worth being with someone that you can never own or be with your lonesome self and know your worth that you will be better of with someone whom you can claim your own? Think twice or more. My answer is: IT IS BAD!
2007-09-30 02:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by ma.isabel z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, so cut it out. How would you like it if he married you but she felt the same as you do now? Men are dogs and they also lie like them. It's time the women of the world unite and stop attacking each other and start going upside these SOBs heads.
2007-09-27 02:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he's an ex boyfriend, that's the #1 flag. If he's married, that's the 2nd. Yeah, it's bad.
2007-09-27 02:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes of course it is your ex bf is an arss and you can do better than that go and find some one else who you can have a proper relationship with cause as they say once a cheater always a cheater don't lower yourself to his standards your better than that
2007-09-27 02:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did he marry, when he does not love his wife.
2007-09-27 02:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋