so i have a 20 year old sister Amanda. Amanda isn't the "goody goody" type. well she has been staying at this guys house the last two days and now brought him over. she has freaky boyfriends and they kind of scare me. they are usually older too. around 7-10 years older. i don't want this guy in my house! what do i do? i can't make her get rid of him.
2007-09-26 16:33:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you should talk to your parents about this one. maybe they can set some ground rules.
2007-09-26 16:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live with your parents, talk to them. Tell them that this guy is giving you the creeps and scares you. Ask them to show him the door.
If the house is yours, that makes things easier. Tell your sister to get the bum out or you will call the police to escort him out. Then do it if she doesn't get him out of the house.
You can't make Amanda have good taste in boyfriends, but you don't have to welcome them into your home. It would also be a good idea to tell Amanda not to bring boyfriends to your home. If she wants to spend time with you, let it be one on one time, no boyfriends. And if she wants to spend time with her freaky boyfriends, do it elsewhere.
Good Luck,
Doc
2007-09-27 00:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, think about how she is your sister first. As much as you don't like seeing here with these guys, you still need to be respectful and meet him.
Next, think about somewhere to meet like dinner perhaps? Your sister would have no idea how you really felt inside.
And lastly, casually tell your sister how you feel. She might get upset, but if you care for her enough, I know you'll do the right thing.
2007-09-27 00:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are right to worry. A lot of families get into danger because of a relative who makes the wrong choices....and you need to have a serious talk with your sister...that she is not welcome if she allows these people to visit.
And if it continues, I would get away from the whole scene. There are dangerous situations you need to stay out of.
Be very blunt and let your sister know they are not welcome...but if she doesn't listen, it will be up to you to get away from the whole scene...maybe where she doesn't know where you are for awhile. Sad but true.....even get another address on your driver's license, etc. ....you can request it.
2007-09-30 22:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you dont feel comfortable with him at your house and that youd be much happier if he wasnt there. If shes a good sister she should take your feeling into consideration. If not just kick their butts out
2007-09-27 08:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents....let them know ur very UNCOMFORTABLE with your sister's boyfriend in the house. I can tell that if you do tell your sister, she's probably gonna tell you back off. So i think it's best to tell your parents
2007-09-26 23:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its your house just tell ya sis...sorry he's not invited. Tell her the truth she may not like it but it will prob make you feel better
2007-09-26 23:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 1984 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You two shar the place? Both pay the same rent?
YES YOU CAN!!! You both should agree on people in the house if one is not ok then they are not welcome!!!
2007-09-27 00:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your sister and tell her how you feel
2007-09-27 19:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents
2007-09-27 12:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by SIMONE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋