There is more to life than having kids. Why is everyone having babies?
Please explain this to me! I don't get what all the fuss is about.
2007-09-26 16:21:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
People are too afraid to live their lives for themselves...so they pop a couple kids out to fill the empty void that is their sense of self.
2007-09-26 17:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis N 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Actually, one of the main reasons we are alive, is to reproduce our species.
Women carry babies. Our bodies are specifically made for it, from the hormones we make to the organs we were born with.
You came from a woman who gave birth to you.
I am sure she wouldn't want to be asked what the big fuss is all about.
Do you work near an obstetrician?
Perhaps something has recently happened in your life to cause you to despise fertile women? (ie: "vomiting" from the sight of a pregnant woman)
I felt very strongly about this, just like you do, right after I had a miscarriage.
Hopefully, you will gain a more positive outlook on the most magical thing a human can physically do.
It is quite a physical feat, when you consider the intense and complicated growth that takes place.
2007-09-26 23:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by gg 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's alright, most of us feel like vomiting at some point during our nine months of pregnancy. Yes, there is more to life than having children, but aparently all of the women who have walked by your office in the last 10 minutes, feel that at this point in their life they want to have children. So beware or youll have a whole forum of pregnant hormonal women at your throat.
2007-09-26 23:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Rachel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
do you work at the radiographers or something? The only time I really started noticing pregnant women was when i wanted to be one of them. are you sure you're not just jealous?
It's fine if having kids is not for you, but i can hardly wait!! Wish me luck, and send some of those women's baby dust my way!
And it's hard to explain. I know it's hard work, i know it's expensive, i definately know i should finish my uni degree first, and that they will be here til the day i die, but i just want kids. that's all there is too it. I talked to my mum about this, and she had the same answer as me. bit of a pause... 'well.... you know.... i.... i just want them.'
2007-09-26 23:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by A derka der 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you come to the end of your life, what are you going to have to show for it?
If the answer is money or a bunch of material goods, that's just "stuff" that every relative will come out of the wood work to get their hand on it.
If you've been a parent, then you can say that you have created life (that's one of the ways we are made in His image).
2007-09-26 23:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by HooKooDooKu 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem, its not you thats having the baby, if you feel theres more to life than having kids then dont have one.
Having a baby is a beautiful gift, and if this is the way you feel about it then you should never have one.
2007-09-26 23:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jorja and Rykah's Mummy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its all in your mind....remember the eyes see whatever they want to see. Don't worry just put your mind in something else and you will not see any more pregnant woman. Keep your mind thinking and take no time to look outside of the office
Example:
Let say you just bought a new car that you never had before...when you are driving your new car, you will see the same car you have 100 times...and this happens because you never pay attention before to this kind of car.....so relax ..I feel you are under alot of stress
2007-09-26 23:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by DANY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having children is a personal choice. And not EVERYONE chooses to have children.
We as humans reproduce to keep our species going. Other creatures do it too. It's been like this since the turn of time.
2007-09-26 23:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by ★ Nina ★ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess that's your opinion, kids are a blessing. They bring a lot to your life. Kids are not for everyone but it is natural instinct to reproduce so therefore that would be why people are having babies! :)
2007-09-26 23:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by ~LYNZ~ 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and in this horrible world- it seems almost cruel.
But, my husband and I want to create a life to ...
1) be there for us when we are older
2) combine ourselves into one person!
3) love forever together
4) to help make this world wonderful :)
5) to share all the love we have. We don't want to be selfish!
2007-09-26 23:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Girl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know. Its our choice to have kids. Having a child is amazing and wonderful. I love my son to pieces and I hope I am pregnant again. I loved it. The feeling of creating such a beautiful baby. And you would know this if you had a kid yourself.
DEBORAH
2007-09-26 23:26:23 · answer #11 · answered by Deborah P 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋