I don't know if I am. And that scares me.
I love my gay friends, but I don't know if I cna be one.
I am a mormon, so that will not help me at all.
They will all be ashmed.
Help me!
2007-09-26 14:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
for get the lable of wether you are gay or bi or straight for now and just date who you feel most comfortable dating. My grandpa is a preacher and i havent told them yet but im pretty sure they wont be very happy. But if you someone you like enough to date dont worry about what it will be like to tell your family or how it will be to be gay just have fun with it and dont do anything your not comfortable doing.
2007-09-26 14:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, if you are over 14 and have had sexual feelings for one gender already, then that should point you in the right direction. If not: You will find out eventually. Basically you just have to wait and see. And if you are gay, its really no big deal. You just have to remember that. Its all about a state of mind.
2007-09-26 14:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
relax, and try not to be scared! Do you find yourself thinking of other girls in a sexual way? If so you may be bi. Talk with your gay friends- ask them what it is like, and tell them your concerns and share your feelings with them. It will come down to YOU- so after talking it over, take time to think about what you want and what you like. Good luck, let me know how it comes out for you!
2007-09-26 14:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by wd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have the "hots' for a girl? well love her emotionally -say a friend, you would be willing to go into a relaitonship with?..than you might be-but it;s not until you go down on her, that you become one, when you do it and like it. But the mind is just trying to mess with you-you know God won't allow you into the gates if you go down on her. You canover her, just don't ever do it.
2007-09-26 14:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go sit on a bench at a mall....Who do you find attractive? Who do you want to kiss you? Who would you want to come over and get your number?
It's not that tough....if it's guys, then you're straight, if it's girls, you're gay, and if it's both then your Bi (or just not very picky).
2007-09-28 10:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend's gay. One of my friends is transgendered and I also have a friend who's a lesbien.
Your sexual identity is about YOU and not your friends.
If your friends are gay and you are straight, there's nothing wrong with that. Dont force yourself to believe you are gay or straight just because of your friends are.
Maybe you just need time to figure out your sexual identity.
If you find out you are straight, just tell them, if they dont want to do anything with you, then they are not true friends.
Please, my friend, do not live a lie, when you grow older, you will just regret it because sexual orientation is NOT a choice.
Best of luck.
2007-09-26 14:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by crazykatie! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? If you are a teenager, then don't worry about it. You should not be concentrating on your sex life, you should be concentrating on your studies, and your friends, and extra curricular activities. You have your whole adult life coming up to make up your mind about something this important.
2007-09-26 15:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by mormon_4_jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart. Only you know if you are gay or bi. Just go on with life with an open mind and heart, and you will see which gender you prefer- or whether you have a preference towards one or the other.
2007-09-26 14:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
By loving your gay friends doesn't mean that you're gay,you are, only if you have feelings for them.Or you might be curious... :-)
2007-09-26 14:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by teddy bear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself this: Do I like only girls, or do I like both girls and guys?
Only girls - you're gay
Girls and boys - you're bi
2007-09-27 02:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋