could you care less or do you think about it constantly?
2007-09-26 13:09:25 · 13 answers · asked by don't touch my mullet 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh I would care but, really it is useless to try to do much about it until the person is ready to be less 'mad'
If I owe an apology I offer it right away-sometimes even that has to wait until the other person has cooled off at least enough to listen.
Unless I have done something awful to deserve it I just let some time pass and try not to feel beat up over it .
2007-09-26 13:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bemo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
If I care about the person, it bothers me a whole lot if they're mad at me. (Even if I haven't done anything) It really bothers me.
BUT, if I don't like the person then I actually like the fact that they're harboring resentment towards me. If they're mad at me, they're probably going to ignore me, which is great, because I don't like them anyway. An even better scenario is a person who I don't like gets mad at me, and tries to act on it. An angry person is almost always on the brink of loosing control of the situation. I find that if you remain extremely calm when dealing with an angry person, your poise is enough to drive them right over the edge.
Then they end up making a mistake, or acting inappropriately, and the person who was mad at you ends up apologizing to you!
2007-09-26 13:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by GazzaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a wuss in such situations generally. I hate it when someone is mad with me. I want to make up and talk it over...If it is someone I don't care about to begin with fine, but I am not a angry person by nature..so it is hard for me to deal with. I try though..anger can be healthy...and we have to let other people feel what they need to feel.
2007-09-26 13:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by CherryCheri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who it is, if it's someone I care about than I would talk it out with the person, if it's some other random person I will just build a bridge and get over it, and just move on. : )
2007-09-26 13:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends who it is and if they have a legitimate reason to be upset with me. If it is someone I care about, I will try to rectify the situation... otherwise I could probably not care one whit.
2007-09-26 16:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about it a lot, I wont rest until things are settled. I will talk to them and fix things. that is if they have something to be mad at me about, otherwise I dont care.
you two above me...why dont you start caring less?
its COULDNT
2007-09-26 13:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could care less. If I'm not mad at them, it's not my problem- it's theirs.
@Bistro: If I'm not the one who's mad, I don't see why it's my problem. Especially if it's the kind of mad where they act like you know what you did to make them mad. :\
2007-09-26 13:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by kxaltli 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They will get over it eventually or they do not need to be in my life.
Life is to short to worry with petty things. There are very few things, in the grand scheme of life, that are not petty things.
2007-09-26 13:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only think about it when i do something wrong of course once i apologize if so then i am done with it. if its something that i'd done knowing the outcome and continued i wanted it and do not care. who seems to bother me the most whether they are wrong or not is my son when he is upset with me
2007-09-26 13:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Yanni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know i could really care less . unless its my best friend but i just keeping telling myself that its their responsibilty to say sorry (unless u did something) and that its their loss
2007-09-26 13:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋