My parents don't like my boyfriend dey have even threated him to kill him if he gets close to me again. Things just seem like dey wont get better. I tried talking to them but nothing seem to work! What should i do i LOVE him. He is a little older than me i will be 18 in two monthes should i go live with him?
2007-09-26 12:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by Maggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
mmm this is a tough situation, but I think moving with him straight away like this is a bad move. Maybe just see this guy occasionally if you are seeing him all the time. Show your parents that there is more to your life than just this guy. I think they will get used ot the fact of having him around then..
2007-09-26 12:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by LiveLifeFILTHY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, do you know why they don't like him? And they can't make threats like that. They are also not in control of you in about a month, am I right? It also depends on how long you have known and dated this guy. Do you know his family and all his friends? Trust me, people change a lot. My boyfriend's dad was all nice and sweet until he met Connie and got married. Once they had a kid(AKA my bf Ben) he was told he had some disease. After that he says he can't get a job and became dependent on EVERYONE. Now he hits his kids, is very rude and disrespectful, and makes everyone do his jobs for him. People change so be careful. But once you are 18 they can't control you so ignore them. My mom doesn't like Ben or his dad but she can't control my life. I'm sorry if this is too long but try to be careful and if they make a threat like that they can get in major trouble. i hope I helped atleast little. I'm only 16, so ya. Good luck!
2007-09-26 20:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, How long have you been dating?
If not more than a year, then I'd say its very risky to live with him.
Please wait 'till your 18 though.
It sounds dangerous what you're saying, and understand that your relationship with your parents will change.
Decide who you love more.
Your family or a guy?
It's your choice. I'm just sayin' my opinion.
2007-09-26 19:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Millie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your parents.. tell them how you feel and that your old enough to know who you want to be with.. they will have to understand sooner or later.. and for love there is no age.. so just talk to them try to convince them if they still think the same way you do what you gotta do to keep your man.. good luck
2007-09-26 19:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and see your parents side of it. They could be right. If you are going to move in, then wait until you are eighteen, as the boyfriend could be jailed for "contributing to the delinquency of a minor."
2007-09-26 19:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask them why they don't lke him?
I doubt you "love" him more than just romantic/passionate love which isn't enough for a lasting marriage. Too bad Cinderella is most people's examples of true love.
2007-09-26 19:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you are 18.
2007-09-26 19:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they threatened to KILL him?
i think you're probably missing some parts of this story,
why would they hate him so much?
2007-09-26 19:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up hell no..........
2007-09-26 19:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋