we've been close friends for years...he's the type of guy that gets along with everyone but only opens up about his issues to one person...and that was me. Apparently he's liked me since then and i never knew until i fell for him this yr. He's never had a gf or kiss and we had a moment and were "together" for a little but decided to stop and be friends. Things were okay again until he lost someone close and thus he pushed me away. Drama and miscommunication happened but we're okay now..or at least i thought we were.
We just hung out 2 weeks ago and everything seemed fine. I called him up and we talked for a little and now, if i call just to see "what's up", he won't answer. Don't know if he's just busy or tired...i'm getting worried...what if he's got a "new friend" now that he talks to about things? What's going on?
2007-09-26 12:04:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm just afraid we're losing our closeness...it's his fault haha i told him i'll always be there and we'll always be close...but did it change b/c i gave him his first kiss?
2007-09-26 12:04:59 · update #1
Maybe you should pointedly ask him in person...IS IT BECAUSE WE KISSED you feel differently about me? -Because I still want to be your friend and care about you. If that's not okay for you, be honest with me now - I can take it!
See if that helps honey, honestly usually gets to the point of such dilemmas.
Grace
2007-09-26 12:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's going through some adjustments. Leave him alone for a while. Let him call you.
2007-09-26 19:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait a while. when i told mel i loved her i taught i was gonna loose her 4 good and that she wouldn't be my friend anymore, result, still friends, doesn't mind me being close to her(same 4 her friends). he just needs to be alone 4 a while.
2007-09-26 19:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Drekentai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋