I am 16 and scared of sex.I've never been sexually abused or anything so I don't know why?
The thought of sex makes me sick,I have OCD and the thought of anyone touching me like that makes me think I'm dirty.
I also don't want children but condoms freak me out to!
What should I do?
I don't think I'll ever be able to have sex!
2007-09-26 10:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by IloveNewYork 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i am scared too, i don't know why but it makes me uncomfortable when men touch me even if they don't mean to be "sexual" about it, it just freaks me out.
I haven't been abuse either but i would like to know more about this. good question.
btw, im 17
2007-09-26 10:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by ¬¬ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, is it the OCD that makes you scared or is that only part of the problem? ask yourself what exactly scares you, is it that you would feel dirty, or that you don't wanna be seen naked etc. Asking those questions are the first step to eliminating the problem.
Of course I could tell you now stuff like "when you found the right person you'll lose that fear" but I think that is only partly true. But I am sure that once you found the right partner that is patient enough to take one step at a time and understands the underlying issues you'll slowly be able to feel better about the whole thing. Just don't go walking off trying to overcome your fear by just doing it randomly. As for the condoms they feel and smell weird I admit but you can just experiment with them and get used to them to lose your disgust or you can just wait until you wanna get married and have your partner tested for STDs and then use only the pill or some other contraceptive.
2007-09-26 17:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about sex right now. Your to young...I know you have probably heard that before. But I became a daddy when I was a teenager and I love my kids but man it sure did make life a lot more difficult...Also when you are ready and it is with the right person you wont be nearly as scared...It will just happen
2007-09-26 17:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Alice W. Dear it"s alright ! You failed to mention all the S.T.D"s Sex has become a dirty and soiled thing. So hon you will live longer and happier in this day and age !
2007-09-26 17:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still young,wait for the right time be smart!
2007-09-26 17:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋