2007-09-26 09:46:45 · 50 answers · asked by Alexandriagal 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't know who gave all the thumbs down, but don't pay attention. Thanks for answering my question!
2007-09-26 09:52:03 · update #1
You would think so, don't hold your breath though. The best of parents can be a good scape goat to a child who refuses to mature andmove on.~~~~jill
2007-09-26 15:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes There Is A Time,,,, Even Tho Parent's Seem To Treat Teenagers And Kids Like Toilet Paper, It's Kinda A Strengthening Experience,,, Like I Used To Be Choked By My Father Every Day Before School Because I Had Add And Adhd, But Now I Look Back And See That I Would Have Been Very Stress full To Them And Because Of It I Have Bettered Myself In Life
2007-09-26 09:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there should come a time when you come to terms with what your parents did and how it effected you. But you have to own up to the fact that your an individual now and you make your own decisions. Yes they may have contributed to why you are the way you are. But start blaming yourself for not doing more to change the bad stuff about you. Take responsibility, blaming others is easy but it doesn't fix your problems.
2007-09-26 09:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure. People who come from bad homes can be very good people. People who come from good homes go bad.
When a criminal uses the 'I had a bad childhood' defense I get disgusted.
I came from abusive, alcoholic parents but I worked hard all my life and have been honorable and lived with integrity.
Sometime a person becomes an adult and makes those decisions that tell who they are, not where they came from.
2007-09-26 09:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Larry W 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have heard it from quite a few people, its my fathers fault that I drink, can't hold a job because my father hit me with a belt as a child yadda yadda yadda. My feeling is once you reach adulthood and are out of the house, it is time to stand up and be mature, make a good life for yourself and stop blaming others for mistakes and bad things that happen to you.
2007-09-26 10:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by vivib 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt. If children keep on blaming their parents they will never be able to function as mature, responsible, and self-reliant adults. I know it is easier said than done but it is not impossible. It is a most liberating experience to break childhood ties and embrace the adult inside ourselves.
2007-09-26 10:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.You can still blame them for messing w/ your psyche & emotions but they don't make you who you are ultimately.You can choose to not let them ruin you totally as a decent person so that you don't have to walk w/ that "my parents didn't love me enough" crutch forever.There has to come a time to let all that go; it's such a huge amount of baggage to carry on one back.
2007-09-26 09:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We all go through this I think. Although some people will blame others for everything and never take responsibility. Even into later life.
2007-09-26 09:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bern_CH 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. About age 9.
2007-09-26 09:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by steven_p_ohio 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah. There also has to be a time when people stop blaming the government for all their problems.
2007-09-26 09:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋