Would you stay with your man for the sake of your kids if he:-
- Controlled you with money?
- Locked you in the house?
- Hid your car keys, tax disc & drained your fuel?
- Left you without food or heating?
2007-09-26 09:00:58 · 52 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-26 09:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever stay in an abusive relationship for the sake of your kids! What are they witnessing here, what effect is that having on them? Are these the life lessons you want them to grow up with, that it's ok for the mother they love to be treated this way and put up with it? Why also let this piece of crap destroy your life and your dignity? Fifty years ago many women in your situation were quite literally trapped, that is not the case today, there is loads of help out there you just need to access it. At the first available opportunity get your kids together and leave, go to the nearest police station and tell them your situation and you must be put in contact with a women's refuge. For all your sakes please do this as soon as you can. be strong and good luck x
2007-09-26 09:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Willow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never left me without food, heating or locked me out of the house. For those reasons you need to leave him for the sake of the kids..
2007-09-26 10:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke question? Why would you? It wouldn't be for the benefit of the children to stay in any type of abusive relationship (and yes, it sounds like some sort of abusive relationship). It may even hurt the children to stay in that situation. I'm no therapist, so maybe it would be beneficial to talk to a professional.
2007-09-26 09:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - the taking of a hostage is illegal.
For the sake of the kids it would be important to get the hell the away from this psycho and not allow then to grow up believing such behaviour is normal.
2007-09-26 09:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by vampyreskissesxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! Nobody deserves a life like that and should not be made to live one like it. I am sure the children would be happier if you were smiling at them instead of seeing the hurt and dread on your face. Give him everything and escape, he will need all the money he can get to seek help and pay for counselling.
2007-09-26 10:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by rapunzel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is this?!!!??? Of course not! What you need to do is remove yourself and your kids from that environment and fast. File for divorce! BUT BE FOREWARNED-guys like that most likely will come looking for you. Do NOT let him know where you're going. Change your cell phone number. Get a new car lisence plate. Get him to talk to a counselor. Pronto!
2007-09-26 09:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by MK4JCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am married my husband gets all the money and spends it too, he sold my car and kept the money so i have no way out of the house which is in my name and i have no key to but we do grocery shopping together and i pick the foods to feed his kids and he pays. so 3 out of 4 oh and im contemplating divorce in a matter of weeks.
2007-09-26 09:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by pchristine84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I would get out in a hurry! if i knew a lady like that I would sit her down and tell her that she needs to get out of that relationship. I would tell her that she is not a caged animal. She is a human being. And I would back them up and would get her to a shelter with her kids. she can start over and maybe get her name changed. cause he would be after her would get her to do a restraining order. I would stand by my friend. If you are her get out now. please please get out you deserve better than this guy and he's not a man or a guy he is not right up in his head to treat a lady like this. He's a control freak. If it's your friend guide her to a shelter and the police station to get a restraining order. GET HER HELP!
2007-09-26 09:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a person would feel terribly sad and afraid so I reckon that person would be staying until it got so bad they had no choice. Is this a real person you are thinking of...if it is, help her find her options and present them but don't expect immediate responses, it takes guts and courage to leave and stay away.
2007-09-26 11:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I'd get out as soon as possible and make sure everyone knew what he was like and the reasons for me leaving. Nobody has the right to treat anyone like this.
2007-09-26 09:21:06 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋