I'm 18/m and my brother is just 21, we've been best friends forever, we share everything, we tell each other everythingand we even share a room.Now there in lies the problem.we ARE quite open with other, we can walk around the room naked in front of each other, sleep in the buff, and even masturbate while the other is in the room, no poblem. we share tips and everything, but, the other day i felt like the line was crossed.see my girlfriend was round, we were on my bed, in the buf, just getting into the business, and my brother walked in shut the door,and started using the pc.she and i were a little shocked, i pulled out and frantically covered her up in bed sheets, got up and asked what he was doing.he said he was just using the computer and i could keep playing with my friend.I just said no, pulled him out into the hall on the rolly chair, trying to cover myself with one hand, told him i wanted 10 mins in private, i went back, helped my girl dress, and she left. IS NOTHING SACRED??
2007-09-26 08:28:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Um... Having a close relationship with a sibling is one thing, but sharing tips on how to jack off and basically circle jerking together isnt right. Everyone has their own definition of what "normal" is but I think what you're doing is bordering on sick and incestual. As for you 2 sharing a room at such an old age, even that is kind of weird but your brother thinking its okay for u to have sex while hes in the room isnt right at all. At the same time how can you blame him? its not like you've set any rules or boundaries before. You let him watch you masturbate what else do you claim is "sacred?" Honestly this whole situation is very wrong, incestual, and creepy. You need to draw the line and stop jacking off together.
2007-09-26 08:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was your girlfriend I'd be really pissed. Of course there needs to be boundaries.. You're not supposed to have sex when your brother is in the room that is so wrong. Maybe it's time you guys get your own room. And the whole masturbate in front of eachother thing, that's pretty wierd too. So in answer to your question, "yes, your brother does need boundaries!"
2007-09-26 15:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by browneyes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time for separate bedrooms. I would definitely sit down and have a talk and put the rules in black and white. Otherwise, you may have to marry your brother. LOL>
2007-09-26 15:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by kathy s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you and your brother have never set boundaries so how did you expect him to know where they were? Talk to him about it and get it straightened out and go from there. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-09-26 15:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, your brother did cross the line.
if this your parents' home? if so, why are you having sex with girls there?
get your own place or a motel...
2007-09-26 15:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u obv need to let him know sock on the door knob means no entry. its universal.
2007-09-26 15:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋