How do you deal with these things when it comes to loving others???
2007-09-26 08:23:58 · 24 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your little voice
Over the wires came leaping
and i felt suddenly
dizzy
With the jostling and shouting of merry flowers
wee skipping high-heeled flames
courtesied before my eyes
or twinkling over to my side
Looked up
with impertinently exquisite faces
floating hands were laid upon me
I was whirled and tossed into delicious dancing
up
Up
with the pale important
stars and the Humorous
moon
dear girl
How i was crazy how i cried when i heard
over time
and tide and death
leaping
Sweetly
your voice
-ee cummings
2007-09-26 08:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If the "bright & dark" are for fear of separation or death, one is losing the beauty of love with apprehensions about things totally unknown. If I had felt that way, when my marriage ended (death) I wouldn't have so many bright memories.
Life is unpredictable; the time to cope is when/if something happens, not before.
One should put their energies into nurturing love (all kinds of love) instead of letting fears shadow it.
Edit: How "unkind" to give thumbs down to the poem from IBDI. Unnecessarily "hurtful." I doubt the people who did so even understand the word "love."
2007-09-26 15:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love supercedes all situations and circumstances. It encompasses all fears, apprehensions, and doubts. One must be realistic in dealing with death because it is an eventuality we cannot avoid. As for me, I have seen many experience death. As a facilitator, I have found that mothers, and women in general, have found it more difficult to pass away because of maternal instincts until they are told it is OK to go--almost like giving them permission. But there are ways of dealing with issues, but it shouldnt affect the love one holds for a partner or loved one.
2007-09-27 07:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I choose who I give my love to very carefully. Its not an emotion that is accessible to just anyone. That being said, those I love I do so completely. Death is a part of life, so I don't avoid love because of it. Separation can happen; but not loving for fear of it means to never love to me.
2007-09-26 15:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
True love is a beautiful thing which cannot frighten the separation by death because each moment with the beloved one is an eternal matter. So enjoy your time with your lover and you will forget bad thoughts. "There is time to love and there is time to lament over"
2007-09-26 16:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by jbaudlet 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
,I am only going to write a little of when something tragic happened to Our family, I am not going to go into details because when I think about the circumstances that happened to us, it felt like they had torn a big chunk of our Heart from us. About 31/2 years ago they killed our Grandson, a student,at our Community College Majoring in Computer Engineering, he was going to start attending the university, in the Fall, of that year. He decided to visit a Friend of his in Nuevo Laredo, Tamps. Mexico, and was killed over there, he was stabbed 84 times all over his Body, to date the Killers have not been caught, I hate that Part of Mexico, How I wish we did not have to Live near them, the River, separates us from them. To us Mexico, does not exist, and we have told a lot of People that pass through our Town, not to go over there, or they are going to regret it, as American Citizens we do not have any rights over there. Love Hurts, when someone from your family Dies, and it is a wound that won't Heal.
2007-09-26 18:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Rena, I think love is a very important emotion to have ,To keep us going through life.A very exciting prospect to fore fill our dreams.It is true some relationships can be up and down affair.But not always ,Some individuals in love can stay in love all their lives.And beyond into the afterlife.It depends on our deep their love is.I think the best part is exploring each other.With everything which is involved in the bond with the lovers.Every moment is precious so keep wishing Rena.And maybe one day you,Will find your partner in love. Good luck in fore filling your dream.
2007-09-26 16:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
We cannot live in fear if we expect to enjoy life to the fullest. Little things count: Kiss and hug as you wake up each morning, hold hands as you walk together, wish each other a good day, give each other your blessing and ask God -aloud- to protect and keep each other safe, kiss goodnight... these are some of the "little things" I love to do.
2007-09-26 15:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why should I fear death? It is a natural occurance. As for separations, they happen. Why would I need to "deal" with them when they don't bother me?
2007-09-26 20:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello queen
when you love someone you do not fear anything
you just love
love is never dark
love is a beautiful thing like life
"La Vita E' Bella"...
Chao
Pluto
2007-09-26 16:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by PLUTO 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋