How is it called and where does it come from? Is it always mutual or not?

Question

You like a person. You want to be with him. But when you remain with him tete-a-tete, you start bahaving in a strange way. It's difficult to find what to talk about, cause you have a sensation that you know everything about him. There is nerviousness and incredible tension. After meeting you always feel tired. From nowhere comes offence and discontent. You want to run away from him as soon as possible. But as soon as you separate you want back to be near him...

Answer 1

This sounds like a French existentialist novel. Sartre, maybe.

Answer 2

Its called spending too much time with the opposite sex. Really.
Today we think we need to spend every minute with each other but that old saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder is still true.
Women should spend a lot more time with each other and visa versa. We're different so spend more time with your own gender and that way you both will always 'want' each other.

Answer 3

It's not love my dear if it were you'd feel full fuzzy and flighty, Not tired, empty. It's not that as soon as you aprt you want to be with him again you simply feel empty. That relationship is taking energy away from you not filling you with it.

Answer 4

Smile. You are a shy person. You also sound very young. Try to relax in his presence: he is just as human as you are. Ask questions: aren't you curious about him? It will get better, I promise. Just relax and go.

Answer 5

It's called a love/hate relationship.

It comes from attraction and imperfection within all people.

Answer 6

You are with a very wrong man and your instinct tells you. Try trusting your sixth sense and get that premonition. It helps

Answer 7

Possibly obsession...