me and my partner are very sexual... having sex on a daily basis, oral, different positions....
do you think there is a limit on too much sex to make a relationship not healthy?
i try not to base the whole relationship on sex, but our sex drives are compatible (very very high)
do you think it will harm us down the road?
2007-09-26 07:57:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
it should be fine as long you put it in perspective. Your sex drive will wane and you'll have to like other things about your boyfriend then. Will you?
2007-09-26 08:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha! No, it won't hurt you, though you might get rubbed a little raw. We love sex too, when we (hubby and I) were in our first year of marriage we would often have sex 4 times a day, every room in the house, exciting fun playful sex and trying anything we felt like because we felt safe and intimate with each-other. (some weekends we never got out of bed.)
It helped us build our relationship so strong you couldn't pry us apart with dynamite. We have reduced the number of times per day gradually - having babies to take care of takes a lot of time, but we never fail to have our cuddle time together, it's too important to us to give up.
The only way it could be unhealthy was if you were substituting sex for lack of love, or indulging so often you couldn't hold a job. I love my guy so much it makes me cry happy tears just because i am so lucky to have such a wonderful man who loves me, but we try to keep our priorities straight. So, ok, we have done a few outrageous things, but we never let it come close to harming our family.
2007-09-26 18:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you and your partner need to determine what is healthy and unhealthy in your relationship. Every couple is different so what is healthy in one relationship might not work in yours. You stated that you and your partner are compatible sexually, but what about on other levels? As long as you both put focus on other areas of your lives as well as on pleasing each other, I believe your relationship is fine. So in essence what I am saying is that you and your partner need to determine if your relationship is healthy or not.
2007-09-26 08:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by ~Evolution's Apex~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not at all. In fact our high sex drive helped us through several rough spots. I'd say that frequent sex is nearly as important as good communication.
You may find that it slows down after awhile, but both of you can work to keep it a frequent activity.
2007-09-26 08:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , it will make you both more happy , then again it might make you too get tired of each other . Happened to me and my ex we had sex 9 times a day everyday until we got tired of it .
2007-09-26 08:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋