I like guys both sexually and personality-wise, but there is this one girl in one of my classes who I like. I don't know why though. I thought that I was gay, and now I am confused. Am I still gay? May someone help me?
2007-09-26 07:56:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes your still a brown eye tickler.lol jk
2007-09-26 07:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are sexually attracted to her then you are at least marginally bisexual -- sexuality REALLY HONESTLY is a spectrum. I'm completely gay, I know people who are completely straight -- but many people have at least a little shading at the edge -- Kinsey used a scale -- and I suspect that was very accurate.
If on the other hand, your sexual drive continues to be toward males and you just happen to like the girl, but you don't become aroused whenever you are around her -- it is probably just that you have a female friend -- most gay males do.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-09-26 15:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, nobody is 100% gay or 100% straight. It is perfectly normal to have feelings for somebody different from your normal preference.
I have plenty of gay friends who will occasionally go out with girls because theyre attracted to them, not necessarily because they are suddenly straight for the period that they're dating.
Just do what you're comfortable with, and not what you feel you are required to do because you're labeled "Gay". But chances are good that you are still gay if you have spent most of your life knowing you are.
2007-09-26 15:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are under 18 you could still be transitioning. It all depends on what you prefere more woman or men? i wouldnt be worried but waite and see if you g out with her or talk with her see if yu feel compfortable natuaraly. then if you do then dont try and make your self not like her u know. just be happy! what ever you are happy with go with it.
how did yo decide you were gay? have you had relations with men or you just didnt like females?? this will help you find your answer. but yu can be bisexual just inform any partners u have
2007-09-26 15:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had major crushes on some girls when I was younger... the difference is it wasn't " god I wanna rip their clothes off" it was more just wanting to be around them all the time and wanting to be the one that THEY wanted... it can be confusing.. infatuation can sometimes feel like love... especially if you feel like it's your "golden opportunity" to have an easier life...
... that said... it doesn't really matter.. find what will truly make you happy and go with it...
2007-09-26 15:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are the only 1 who know what you want and know what you feel! but what i think is you are still gay even you like that girl.... unless u stopped open the gay site or feel exiciting or hot to see the men without cloths.... i do like some girls but not for sex... cuz i am gay!
2007-09-26 15:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be bi,
So guys push all your buttons.
Don't feel threatened or confused if this girl rocks your world.
There is no reason you can't have friends of both sexes.
Love and attraction confuses us all..........but we keep going back for more.
Go with your heart...............even if you don't end up in a relationship, you could make a friend for life
2007-09-26 15:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by steven m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold on to that thought man. Go with that girl and good luck.
If you are on a cross road choose to be like most people not to be different.
2007-09-26 15:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You like her in platonic way, rather than a romantic way. If you still like guys, then, without knowing you, I would say your are gay. ;-)
2007-09-26 15:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by ҡʏʟɛ - ❄ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. that is understnadable. the girl must have turned thigns around for you. your probally bisexual.
or who knows. if anything happens with this girl it could change your total perspective.
i hope things work out for you!
good luck :D
2007-09-26 15:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by supp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your feelings, not the labels.
If it turns out that you're not *really* interested in her, I promise we won't revoke your gay card :)
2007-09-26 15:00:21 · answer #11 · answered by Clint 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋