when me and my boyfriend have sex, if were in a certain position it hurts if he goes into far. I was just wondering if its just me or do some of you girls also feel pain if a guy goes into far? or is their something wrong with me?!!?
2007-09-26 05:36:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It can be fairly normal. I wouldn't freak out too much about it, as long as it doesn't hurt except for at certain times in certain positions. Also, if you're not FULLY eroused, your vagina won't open up as much. When your body gets very aroused, your vagina will produce it's on lube (as I'm sure you know) and it will literally get longer. Your cervix will extract into your body more making more room for him. So, if you're very, very into it one time and it didn't hurt, and then you're only kind of into it, or you didn't have the time to get yourself fully aroused and it kinda hurts that time, that no shock.
If it starts hurting on a fairly common basis, then you may want to go get it checked out. But, if it's minimal and only when he seems to be very deep inside you, no worries!
2007-09-26 06:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you! Maybe it's because he's probably doing these positions incorrectly, or you're not using enough lubricant. Some women ( like me!) make a clear fluid called female ejaculate. Some make demure little droplets, others gush more than a geyser! Ask your boyfriend, when doing these positions, to rub his finger ( gently!) on your clitoris to get you more excited. If you don't like that, try touching your breast during sex. If all else fails, try using a mini vibrator on the areas that excite you the most.
2007-09-26 05:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Caroleen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most vagina's are only so deep, like 3 or 4 actual inches. It will usually accommodate a 6" to 7" penis with little or no problem. Anything bigger than that that will start hitting your cervix, causing the pain. The different positions dictate the different angles he enters at. Find the best one that doesn't cause you pain and go with it.
2007-09-26 06:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, nothing wrong. I had this problem myself, but I figured out that it's because he's very well endowed, and I'm short in height, therefore my vagina isn't as deep as others. The way to get rid of this is to make sure you are completely "ready" to take him in. Spend extra time on foreplay, and tell him to make sure that before he goes into a position that would make him go deeper, he'd better go slow with it at first, then slowly build up to let yourself get used to it down there.
I really hope I helped. I didn't have any help from anybody when I had this "problem."
Good luck!
2007-09-26 05:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stephy B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in some positions if it hurts when he is going in to far he is more than likely hitting your cervix. Believe me there a couple of positions that if I even attempt I get yelled at because I wind up hitting my wife's cervix. Don't do those positions would be my suggestion or if you do try to get your boyfriend not to go all the way in.
2007-09-26 05:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not you.. you might just be getting used to sex, and in that case it will hurt, or maybe you just have a smaller set vagina and your boyfriend is rather big.. there is nothing wrong with you. sex can be painful even for the most expericned people.. not me. but still. dont worry about it. but if you are worried still. go talk to your gyn or your mom, they will both be able to help you. or.. just dont do that certain position anymore.. good luck
2007-09-26 05:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by miss huff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always have that problem. I have a tipped uterus (pretty common problem) and apparently that's why it hurts. The good news is that during pregnancy your uterus moves to a normal position and sex doesn't hurt! The bad news is that after the baby is born it goes right back.....
2007-09-26 05:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way, try arching your back a certin direction when you are in whatever position and that will adjust the position of your vagina making it less painful. Try also adjusting your butt to a different hight, maybe put a pillow under your butt or whatever. Its perfectly normal.
2007-09-26 06:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Janna B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. My girl says it hurts her in just about any position unless she is on top. I am considered to be very well hung so she doesnt like it when im in control because it hurts her
2007-09-26 06:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl, u r not alone. it's not u, some positions may just expose u too much, try simple position, like him on top that way ur not that open and he wont be bumping ur pelvic so much. if u ride him then it goes all the way in and brusies u. careful!!!!!!!!
2007-09-26 05:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋