2007-09-26 05:23:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think that this is something that you need to sit down and discauss with your parents. It is your body and your baby and the ultimate decision is yours, but they know you and know how your life is and would be the best people to give you the right advice.
2007-09-26 05:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a difficult time. You can get through all of this. First talk to your family. If you don't want to keep the baby then figure out how to get your baby adopted. There are so many people trying to have a baby and they would love to have your little one. Check to see if you have a pregnancy resource or similar group in your area. This is really tough on you and it feels like you are alone. If you need support there are so many that will help you it will surprise you!
2007-09-26 12:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by I love dogs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and make sure you see a doctor. You have lots of options. Make sure you think things thru rationally and dont let emotions make your decisions for you. Babies are huge responsibiities and change your life forever. You are responsible for your actions and your parents while they may help you should not be expected to raise this child. If the father is an important person in your life, be sure to include him. He needs to step up emotionally, physically and financially. Ultimately your life will be changed totally for the next 18 years by what ever decision you make.
2007-09-26 12:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno just how your feeling. I got pregnant at 16 with twins. Its a shock i kno, but you have to figure out first if you want this baby or not. If you do thats great! There are lots of programs out there that will help you take care of that baby. Including your parents. But dont let them make that decision for you. What about the father? He needs to know. He could help you in the decision also. If you wanna talk more you can email me.
2007-09-26 12:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sheena F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that for yourself. When I got pregnant the first time I was very scared. But I kept my baby and worked my butt off. I couldn't imagine not having him in my life. Or wondering "what if" for the rest of my life had I given him up. Now I have three children. It isn't easy, but it is well worth it. Find a teen pregnancy counselling center in your area.
2007-09-26 12:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,I had friend that had a child at the age of 15.But but it up for adoption.Because she and the father did not get along and she could not afford a child that age.So your best bet is to give it up for adoption.
You can always look for you child later on in live and take care of it.
2007-09-26 12:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by prishi1464love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that had a baby at 13 - it's a hard situation. She decided on adoption. You need to talk to a parent, explore your options, and make the best choice for your situation. No easy answer here.
Best wishes!!!
2007-09-26 12:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. They may not be happy at first, but they can give you good support and guidance. They will want to check to see if you are really pregnant. Sometimes, hormones are all messed up at your age, making you miss a period.
You must trust them now. Good Luck
2007-09-26 12:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by tysdad62271 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, seek medical care for you and your baby and decide with the help of your family to either give the baby to a family of need of a child or if your mom is willing to help you raise the baby, while you mature. Don't have an abortion please... a baby is a blessing and there are lots of us out there who are looking for a blessing like the one you have. good luck.
2007-09-26 12:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Optimistic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there.. Everyone has an opinion of course..But what really matters is what you want to do.. We can all give you suggestions and try to help but you are the one that has to decide for yourself.. I would first tell your parents or mom at least.. Then get to a Dr. so he can start you on prenatals and stuff.. If you want to talk to me I would love to hear form you and give you advice or suggestions.. You can go to my profile and click on the email me... Thanks I hope that you will send me a message.... Thanks
2007-09-26 14:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋