I've just found out that one of my guy mates has got a gf...I havent talked to him in a long while though...
This is his first gf...I feel really selfish cuz like I can have any amount of bfs I want but its like I dont want him to go out with anyone..
He's the kinda guy who'd be really committed though so...
yeah...
I feel like crap now..
2007-09-26 02:15:49 · 19 answers · asked by krystal_engel 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hi Krystal, i hate to say it babe but it is jealousy,he was your friend he was free but now he isnt so you are maybe feeling left out even tho you havent chatted for a while, you knew he was always there.This feeling will pass so go out and have some fun with your mates, dont sit at home and be miserable ok .He must have been lonely at times not having anyone so try to be happy for him like you sed you have b/fs so wish him well next time you see/speak with him .xx
2007-09-26 02:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by her with the mad ginger hair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a copy of Aesops fables and read about "The Dog In The Manger". Doubtless you've had your opportunity to make a bid for this guy and you chose not to go for it. Lots of people, myself included, resent couples forming because we fear that we won't get so much attention as we've been used to from here on in. In practise however, I find that couples don't always seek to spend all their time alone and you should remain of importance in this guy's life as a friend, so long as you give him space to be with his girl. Start a "Group Hug" question on here if you feel like crap: in my experience it's a good way to feel connected if you're feeling isolated. You'll be surprised at how many people respond!! x
2007-09-26 12:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his life.
And you have yours as well.
If you like him, tell him. It's not too late.
You can still be friends. Maybe that's just the kind of relationship you two are going to be in.
We can't all be everyone's bfs or gfs.
2007-09-26 09:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by jasmine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwww hun, may be you had some feelings for him babes....It happens, dont beat yourself up over it, just try to be happy for him, so you dont end up spoiling your friendship hun x It probably wasnt meant to be at this point for you x
2007-09-26 09:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Maria S © 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's his life, why should you be bothered, your not his girlfriend...good luck to him, i hope she makes him happy....do not interfere, but give him your blessing and tell him that your happy for him...after all he's only a mate, RIGHT?...and stop being so selfish because this is not about you you you...this is about him and his happiness with his new girl...be happy for him and get over it
2007-09-26 09:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u want him or r u just jealous that he found someone and is happy?? You'd obviously fee upset if u wanted him for yourself chicks?? x x x
2007-09-26 09:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dolly 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, why didn't you get in there first and tell him how you felt, be happy for him as painful as it is or you might just lose his friendship for ever.
2007-09-26 09:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the positive side you passed the first stage, you're not in denial. You'll be angry soon then resigned to it.
2007-09-26 09:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't be selfish and let the fella have a bit of happiness xx
2007-09-26 09:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by angel eyez xx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're the least bit fond of him.....you'll get over it quickly and be happy for him
2007-09-26 09:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by missceekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋